Member Since: October 30, 2015 Answers: 1 Last Update: October 30, 2015 Visitors: 200
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In just a few days, I have my final school exams which will determine whether I'll be attending university or not, which I'm sure I'll get into my desired course, but beside that Its like I'm losing motivation and focus and don't really understand why I'm doing what I'm doing. Like one minute I want to completely give up and I question what I'm doing with my life and the next I force myself to do the work despite not knowing where it will take me. At this point I'm completely uncertain about my life and don't know where my head is at. I care so much about my education, and despite some disbeliefs and confusions I know that I want to make something for myself but I'm just so unhappy at the moment and feel like there's no need to try and achieve everything. It's just mixed emotions, some days I'm an overachiever and some days I just lose concentration and don't know what I really want. Why am I feeling so confused about the future ? What is it that I'm supposed to do? I feel so incredibly lost and I know that I will never slack off because I choose to be a perfectionist and want to do everything perfectly but the overwhelming feeling of disbelief is consuming me and I'm not sure that killing myself with stress and becoming anxious over the future and school is doing me any good. (link)
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I think that the future can appear scary and worrying at times, but I think that you need to remember that what you are feeling now will probably change as you grow and move on to new things. I think everyone has that period in life when they are uncertain about the future, and feel in a way like their future is not as bright as others because others appear to know what they want in life. Your career will probably develop from yor interests and hobbies, and you'll probably discover that what you want to do has been right in front of you this entire time. Try not to stress too much because this is only an early stage
of your life, and I am sure that your future will be bright and happy. You've just not realised it yet!
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