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My wife and I have been married for 7 years. When I met her she was very reserved and shy acting. Our sex life was good but she never wanted to deviate from normal foreplay and intercourse. I had told her that I had 5 sexual partners before I met her (including an ex wife). She never said anything about her past other than having sex at 17 and then having not dated for 3 years prior to when I met her. After we were married she told my brother at a party that during 1 year at college she had sex with 27 guys and that she was proud of it as she had used them for sex. When he told me I was shocked. I married a slut as far as I was concerned. She is very religious and plays the good Baptist part well. I have told her that I am having a hard time dealing with the fact that she had so many partners in such a short time, the average total partners for a wome of 39 is 7. She has had sex with over 35 total partners. I told her that I need some details about why she had sex with so many guys and the details of what happened. She says it is none of my business, but I now just think about all of these guys fucking my wife every which way. We have not had sex for 4 months now and it is driving me nuts. I just can't get excited about her. I wonder were these guys great at sex, did they have bigs dicks did she do things with them that she will not do with me.
What should I do? Am I wrong to have an open conversation about the details of her sex capades? She also says she does not remember any details, yeah right?
She seems happy to not have sex now. Now that she does not have to work and I earn over $300,000 a year. I ask her how she could fuck all those guys who gave her nothing and not me the guy who has given her everything?

Please help.

Jimbojoe (link)
You're her husband. It IS your business. You were intentionally conned scammed and mislead. She planned it from the start. She misrepresented herself then let it out when she decided she can leave you and take half. She doesn't mind not having sex with you because she doesn't love you and is not turned on by you.

You are a fool and allowed yourself to be betrayed. You married a rental car. Everyone else drove it brand new. Then she pawned it off to you for full price. Now she's got you locked into a marriage contract.

Your job now is to prepare yourself secretly without her knowing. PAY for a secret consultation with a divorce attorney, tax attorney, and offshore expert.

Move all Real Estate into a trust held by your parents or form an overseas shell company to hide it. Get it out if your name. Move all stocks cash holdings offshore. This will take time to learn and pay for but cost less in the long term.

Get as much money out of the picture as possible while you are pretending to still be in love with her and go to "counseling" as a rouse to show you are trying to get over it. Don't let her suspect a thing or she will go for the kill. Shortly before you're ready to strike drain her accounts and cancel her cards. All of them. If she accelerates the debts she's onto you and you need to cut it sooner. Remember you will be paying for half or more of your combined debts after its over.

She ONLY cares about your money. She is entitled to it. It's her money. Why? Because she Married YOU. Now you MUST protect yourself making sure she gets little to nothing in divorce because the female judge will rape you for 70 percent once she learns you had an issue with marrying the college cum dumpster.

You are the real victim here. You were deceived and lied to since the first meeting. Fight back. Minimize the damages you will be forced to pay by a system designed to steal half or more of your life earnings and enslave you to alimony and child support payments.

Your marriage is over. She has the advantage of emotional detachment. You don't. Your just another penis. One of many. Take action or you will be sorry.





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