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Age: 14
Member Since: May 23, 2005
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Ok, I never knew my parents I guess my mom was a druggie and my dad was a pimp so they didn't really want a kid around. Well because of that I've been in "the system" for my whole life. I've been in and out of foster families and only 2 of them have ever considered adoption. Well I've been staying with this family for 2 years now. It's really great I absolutely love it they're so nice and they really make me feel like I'm their child. Well my mom (foster mother) was considering adopting me, she sent away for the papers and she was really thinking about doing it. But then my mother (birth mother) showed up. She said that she's cleaned up and that she wants to be able to raise and spend time with her daughter. I've never met my mother before and I don't know if I should go with her. I mean I have a really good thing going now these are the nicest people I've ever met and they want to adopt me. I'm afraid that if I go and get to know my mother and it doesn't work out I will blow my chances with this family. I really want to be a part of this family. I love these people but I've always wanted to meet and spend time with my real mother. I have so many questions that I know only she can answer. I talked to my foster mom and she said that I could talk to her and that I can get to know her and still be a part of this family but my mother said that she's leaving to another state so I have to make a choice. I don't know what to do. Please help me what should I do? (link)
i suggest that you go with your foster mother because you dont know about your real dad and he could abuse you also he could put pressure on your real mother and she could become a drugie again.




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