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I'm in middle school and i know a lot of people change in middle school but my friends have changed a lot. A lot of them curse now and it's really annoying because I HATE unnecessary cursing! And the just curse for know reason! And then one of my friends who actually goes to church with me used the f word and then put god right after it. I was like "REALLY?!?!". I mean I understand there's a lot going on with her parents and stuff and I've been supportive of that but know she curses and it's really annoying some of my friends have stopped when I don't them I don't like it but I would hate to loose a friend because the curse. :( (link)
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Well if they are your real true friends they will
Respect you enough to at least not do it around you
Or show the attempt to try and catch themselves
If they built The tolerance too from them doing all the time might take them a Lil bit to get in the habit to at least not do it
Around you and if they don't then they are not true friends and if I was youI be looking for new ones cause if they can't respect you on something simple like this then when something bigger comes up then they won't either
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I am a thirteen year old girl. Since I will talk about my siblings, their ages are 5,6,10,&14.
My mother is normal, it's not her I'm concerned about it's my father. He is usually playful, fun and gives us treats on occassion but a few times a week he gets violent. He drinks and gets violent. He'll mean to be playful and end up being to rough and hurting us. But since we are hurr real bad, we cry and he freaks out screaming at us and sending us to bed for crying. My autistic brother whom is fourteen (lets call him C). C picks his nose and sucks his fingers. When he does so, my dad will slap C, curse, or just be like "WASH YOUR EFFIN HANDS!!!! IF I EVER SEE THAT AGAIN ILL BREAK YOUR FINGERS!!!!!" And when dad makes my siblings cry, I cry and get yelled at. Just last night my dad hurt my brother, I cried and got sent to my room. My dad called my other brother who wasnt crying to watch a movie with him instead. And when he called my brothet upstairs he said "Luke shut your freak sisters bedroom door!!!!" Why am I a freak for crying. My mom cant really do anything because shes very tiny (like only 110 pounds) and my dad is 250 pound man. She will usually just say "Why dont you guys just go play outside?" Or "is it bedtime yet? Why dont you guys go to bed?"
So is this an abusive father or just a strict one? Should I talk to him or seek outside help? (link)
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Well first I want to start by saying I'm sorry that you are going
Through this. But I advise you to talk to your father first if you
Never have before (when he is sober of course and is not in
a bad mood maybe even write him a letter and express
It to him that way . It sounds like he maybe stress seeing you
Have a house full. Maybe some other problems going on that
You aren't aware of . Could be money problems or relationship
. But that still don't make it right . You could put in your letter that you love him and that you don't know what
Is going on but if there is anything you could do to
Help because you don't like how he hurts you guys
And , so on some times when is in there face they don't relies.
Now if that makes things worse or it continues
After you express how you felt then . I would seek outside help
ASAP cause next time I pray there won't be but it could go further then just what you have experience . Usually the abuser gets comfortable and can take it too far well hope that helps . Also try to show him more Affection!
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