Member Since: November 12, 2011
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20/f
Okay so I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a while and I love him very deeply. We plan on getting married once I'm finished with college. My problem is, I think I may be addicted to porn. I am so horny every day, and feel the urge to masturbate. This has been going on since I was 13. I go through phases where I won't look at it for months, but ever since this past September, I look at it almost every day. My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life, and have sex often. But I STILL feel the constant urge to watch porn. I know it can't physically harm me, but is this healthy? Or normal? (link)
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It's completely normal. When you're 13 you start feeling those feelings. Now your 20 and it's your form of entertainment. There's nothing wrong with a little pleasure. Remember the show Sex and The city?
If you ever watched this you know there is a girl on their named Samantha and she is obsessed with sex. I have real life girlfriends that are just like her. Doesn't mean their sluts..but they love sex. (Of course with their husband)
It is only normal for you. Everyone is different. Some people think sex is alright and only do it twice a week, others like me and you prefer pretty much 3-4 times a week! LOL.
But yes, to answer your question, nothing's wrong with you.
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I'm 11 and my babysitter is touching me wrong.He's 16 and he babysits me everyday after school. When I finish homework and watch tv he makes me sit on his lap and he puts his hands up my shirt.I say stop,but he says its okay and to just come down.Sometimes he even puts his hands down my pants.I know what he is doing is wrong and I want to tell my parents,but I'm to scared what do I do? (link)
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Sweetie, he is 16 years old. You are only 11! That is sexual harrassment. He does not need to be babysitting. You have to tell your parents. I know your scared but if you don't one of these days that babysitter of yours may just rape you. This is against the law and your parents will deal with the situation. Honey, listen to me. YOU HAVE to tell your parents immediately.
If you can't find words then say this "Mom and dad. Can you please sit down? I've had this problem and I've been scared to tell you. My babysitter keeps touching me when your gone. I've told him to stop but he won't."
And tell all the details. It's a Saturday and you don't need some 16 year old boy doing things to you like that. You are kid...he is going to be a legal an adult in 2 years. I hope you tell them.
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Hey I am 18/F
Well I haven't been a virgin since I was fourteen, I've had about three sexual partners all close boyfriends, I've been checked for stds and I am clean, I've been single for a while now so I've started to experiment with just myself, I've never had an orgasm before, I've had to fake it, sex never even felt especially good, sometimes it did, but not really. Well, I've been touching myself lately, and sometimes it feels really good but in a strange way, I like how it feels but for some reason I just have to stop like it's too much, I've tried to overcome it but I can't, sometimes I get really close and I feel like I am going to orgasm, but then I just pull my hand away and I can't understand why, is there any reason why? And if so is there a way to overcome this and reach my goal?
tips would be appreciated!! (link)
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Having Sex at 14 wasn't a good decision you made sweetie. At that age all the way up to now, it is clear you were not mature or ready. That is one of the things that people have to realize.Your first time should feel special and you should be ready. I think you should put a hold on sex for a while until you are completely ready. In a way, you are still a virgin. You never had a orgasm and have not yet felt that feeling. It can be extremely powerful and makes you feel emotionally attached to that person. I am assuming you have not felt emotionally attached. With those emotions comes us women feeling crazy after the huge breakup or blowout or pain. That's why you HAVE to be ready and mature for this.
Now for this orgasm issue...is it painful and you just stop? If not then maybe you are overwhelmed... I haven't heard a case like this but maybe you're nervous of feeling that. Or again, you should give it time. You are 18 and that's ok if you don't have sex for an amount of time. I'd give yourself 21...it's the age where you are REALLY legal to drink,be mature,party etc. Just promise me you'll be responsible. Have you tried asking your mother about this? Does she know you have had sex? If you don't want to tell her about those details that is fine. But maybe try talking to her about this...masturbation issue? No?
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