Gender: Female
Location: Boise, ID
Age: 30
Member Since: September 19, 2007
Answers: 1
Last Update: October 4, 2007
Visitors: 379
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i just broke up with a guy that i was going out with for almost 3 years and this is actually the 3rd time that i break up with him but than the 2 times he started crying and i felt bad and i got with him but my parents dont like him and i think that is enough reason why i shouldnt be with him but than wen i broke up with him today he called me back and he started crying and telling me i'm being selfish i mean i belive im not i hate myself for putting him through this and he dose not understand that i need to be alone right now? Am i being selfish we are not young people we are adults help me (link)
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Even tho this feels like a very complicated problem to you, the answer is very simple- It doesn't matter WHY you don't want to be with this person anymore, you want to break up. You don't need to justify it to him, yourself, or anybody. But if you stay with him, them you are only doing so because you feel sorry for him. You can't have a relationship based on PITY. . It's not fair to either of you. You should be dating people who are fun, positive and have some self respect, not some manipulative cry baby. He needs to man-up and find someone who WANTS to be with him, and not because he guilt- trips them into doing so.
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