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This is really embarrassing and I'm not ready to talk to my Doctor about it, I am just hoping one of you on this site maybe has the same issue and/or can give me some idea as to what is going on.. Google didn't help either, or maybe I wasn't searching right.
So, this has happened for a while now. After I have bowel movement, I wash my rear end, just to keep things clean and I wipe dry too. I know moisture in that area creates bacteria etc.
The things is, for some reason, feces seem to leak from my anus. This is what I think. Because I can feel the moisture there and when I go to the toilet and wipe down there, there is some fecal matter. This never used to happen, until recently.
Please help. It is kind of freaking me out.
Oh by the way, I am not sexually active, no anal sex or anything.
19/f (link)
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If you are worried about this, honestly do not be worried about seeing a doctor, they will help you, and build your confidence up once the issue is fixed. Frome experience, showing or telling the doctor somthing embaressing is really not nice or comfortable, but you have to realise that to them you are just another case and that although it is embaressing for you, doctors see this kind of thing all the time :) Don't stress either, im sure there is nothing to worry about here but its always good to get it checked out just in case and also for fixing the problem, good luck
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Well yesterday i was woken up to go school clothes shopping. While we were there my guardian(she is my actual grandmother) Asked if i could fit into 0's in women. I said no because my thighs are too big. She then proceeded to say "Because your fat, you need to quit gaining weight" and I left the store crying. She has been saying that since 4th grade and i'm currently going into 8th.
Anyway. I am somewhat overweight, but not very much. I have so access stomach weight. and my thighs are somewhat fatty. I have allot of stretch marks on my thighs. But my doctor informed me it was because my skin has no elasticity in it. So its not from getting 'too fat' in that area.
I'm usually home and i'm not really aloud out of the house to go on walks or runs or anything. I don't like to be out of my room because i don't get along with my cousins that live with me or my female guardian. And my room has no space at all. I'm wondering what i can to loose weight? I can't walks to school because i live 7 and a half miles away from school. I can't play sports because no one is willing to pick me up after practice. Eating healthy is nothing i can control because i can't choose whats being bought as food in this house. Every time i ask for something they refuse to get it.
F/13/4"11/about 128 lbs (link)
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Well, I would say eat what is given to you that is healthy if the portions are big enough that if you don't do otherwise you will starve. You could do sit ups and push ups to tone your body etc, but you shouldnt lose weight if you don't need to, make sure you are healthy about it. As far as your guardian goes, if the things being said to you are mean etc, try to ignore them because thats not nice at all. and as you get older your body will natuarally grow into itself as well. :) Just try to take care of your self and stay confident :)
At the moment it doesnt sound like you can do more than this.
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