Member Since: April 7, 2016
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I (17 F) have a great group of 4 best friends. They are my only friends, and the only friends I need because they are so loving and supportive. Except for one thing: we never talk seriously about boys. We have a couple of times, but only in a hypothetical manner, like what do you think is cute, or what qualities do you like.
The problem is, I have a crush on this guy. I've had this crush for a few years. I told my friends once near the beginning, and they laughed and told me we would make an awkward couple. (They actually had some logical reasoning...I'm 5'8 and at the time he was only 5'3 ish and super skinny....but he's grown!)
Since then, every time we have a sleepover, we ask "does anyone have anything new they have to tell us?" (meaning in the context of boys), but no one ever says anything. I have told myself that i'm not lying to them by being quiet because I told them when my crush was a new thing, and its not new anymore
The problem is, now I want to tell them because I want advice from them, but I don't know how, because I've been hiding this crush from them for 3 years.
I'm just scared that they're going to make fun of me or be mad at me or something. Even though I would trust these girls with my life, I can't seem to trust them with this bit of information...
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Well hello there, first of girl I personally know how hard it is to tell your friends about your crush.As that is one secret thats dear to you.
If I could give you advise it would be to ask yourself are they truly your close friends or not? Because honestly if they were that close they would know about him. Also tell you mum if you close to her, I promise she has the best advise ❤❤ and you know what be your own judge girll 💁 if you want something go get it, you never know unless you tried it? Right... It's your life you do what you want 🙋🙋 Know atleast there are 2 people supporting you in your decision ME AND YOU AND YOU AGAIN
Best of luck 💅
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