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Member Since: February 10, 2014
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Im in a long distance relationship for 1 year now. when he left in January, it kinda felt a little different.
He keeps telling i should find someone better and that i deserve better. He also said he wants me to be skinnier and says I sometimes look ugly when i dont do my hair. He also broke up with me a few times (at least i thought he did)
I told him like 4 times, that if he does this again to me, i wont come back. yeah like i said i did that 4 times, i always forgive him.

Now he did it again, told me his "Im-gonna-break-up-with-you-speech" again and that hurt me so much.
I told him that this really hurts me and he didnt even apologize. he was just like "ok.sorry"

We said that i will visit him in summer again, and he still wants me to come. I mean i want to come too, but it cant go on like that right?
I really dont know what to do...

Thank you for reading that, I appreciate every advice (link)
Im gonna tell you what you dont wanna hear. I was in the same type of relationship a few months ago, he used to love me and care about me so much, i thought i was so lucky. then all of a sudden he just stopped caring? he treated me like shit nad i put up with it. the truth is its gonna end up with yo ugetting your heartbroken because hes not going back to how he used to be, which fucking sucks. Believe me, i completely got my heart broken, not just when we broke up but for the weeks or months he stopped caring, id cry everynight and pretend to him everything was fine because i didnt wanna lose him. I looked despereate and needy, everything i promised myself i would never be. End it. Do yourself a favour, you wont regret it, I swear. Never let a man treat you anything less than Beyonce.




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