if your BFF is crushing on your current BF, then maybe you shouldn't be friends with her... a true best friend would be hsppy for you and let you have your boyfriend...
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dear scared to be alone,
I FELL YOUR PAIN! i was like that at our school's halloween dance... my best friend was going with her boyfriend, and i didn't have a date
but if you already have your dress and everything, and all of your friends are going, then you should have a blast! since none of your girlfriends have dates, you all can just have fun together at the v-day dance, and be happy for the girls that DO have dates
either that, or you can scoff and say "who needs boys, anyway?" LoL
let me know how things turn out

Chandler

if your only 14 and have never had a b/f up until now, then yes, it is normal
most girls might not want to start love-relationships UNTIL the age of 14, so now would be a great time for you to start

if this person is being annoying and a poser, it probably because she wants to be friends with you again, get to know you better
she likes you a lot, im sure, and just wants to start all over and be good friends again
good luck, and tell me how it works out

Chandler

dear anoymous,
if you both like eachother, and he is waiting for you to make the first move, then go ahead and make it
it's better for you two to become a couple or go on a normal date before anything big happens, such as a school dance, unless you WANT that to be the first thing
if he doesn't ask you to the dance like you wanted, then be aggressive and ask him yourself... you can always do it vise-versa
good luck, and let me know if it works out

ChAnDlEr

dear zoe,
i think i might know of this robert. if his last name is anderson, then yes, i know him, but anyway...
if he's already got a girlfriend, try and check up on there status if possible. if you know what's going on between the two (not too deep, tho), then if you know their on the verge of breaking up, you can try your best at getting robert's attention
say hi to him a lot, and if that doesn't work, then try the "book drop"
walk by him slowly, and then "accidentally" trip over yourself... your books will all fall to the floor, and if your close enough to him, he's BOUND to kneel down and help you, which is when you'll make leveled eye contact with him :-)
good look, and let me know how it turns out

ChAnDlEr

if they get out of hand, maybe TOO out of hand, just do what you can while the parents are out... onc they return, tell the parents that their children are just too big of a responsibility, and that you are unable to handle them on your own
if you still want to sit for these people, though, maybe consider bringing along a friend next time to help you out

if you want this guy to make the first move, then he first of all needs to know you better!!!!! have conversations with him whenever you can, in between classes, at lunch, whenever he's not swarmed by other ppl

thats great
but maybe you should give her a chance
maybe she's doing all these things because she wants attention

if your boyfriend's friends think you are a slut, and he's not doing anything about it, then he's REALLY not a good boyfriend
you should dump him, unless he comes around and decides to change for you and protect your rep.

okay, wrong move... if you tell your crush you dont like him, play jokes on him, etc, then he MAY get the wrong idea! you never know, so you mite wanna stop

well, you need to be aggressive to be able to get his FULL attention... since you swim with him, maybe you could see if he wants to race?? that's always a good way of showing you like him, AND showing off your talent for swimming... just an idea

EXAMPLE: if he's sitting nearby, go and sit down next to him and introduce yourself, if he doesn't already know who you are
if he says hi back, then try and start conversation to make sparx
thats ALWAYS the first step
then, just follow his lead, and you should become great friends!!!!!

Haha, I think the only answer to your problem is that this "guy" is playing Hard-To-Get
make the first move if your that anxious

To answer your question Rezzy, your might just have to do what you need to do the most: follow your heart. Your heart will guide you through the process...
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I cant help you unless you specify WHAT you are confused about.

It's great that you and your crush like eachother! But if he's too scared to ask you out, that means that he's PROBABLY waiting for you to make the first move. Get to know him, then see what happens. Let me know if it works out.

Well, if your best friend is in the midst of her own relationship, then you cant expect her to always help you with YOUR love-life problems. If she's busy with her guy, then let the two of them be. The best time to ask your friend for help would be when she's not with her boyfriend.

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