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Member Since: May 30, 2006
Answers: 2
Last Update: May 30, 2006
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Hello, just wondering how I should go about telling a girl how I feel about her. I am semi-overweight and not really that confident yet. I just want to give it a shot anyway whether it ever happens or not. I have known her for a while so it's not just some random pretty girl that I've never talked to.

I was think about sending roses and etc. with a secret admirer message...would a girl like that? Just looking for some advice on how to handle this.. (link)
I think your best plan of attack is to get to that stage where you do feel comfortable with her...Laugh!! Do things you both enjoy...see a funny movie, be silly etc...IN my opinion laughing with a guy is the biggest turn on...Roses may seem cheesy and put her on the spot....Sure, you will get the message across, but you may just put her in a awkward position...

I hope this helped


A guy that I'm friends with and hoping will be my bf one day keeps giving me mixed signals. One day he'll be sweet and attentive and tell me things I want to hear; and the next he's mean and cold. For example; one day he told me that he wanted to be with me and hoped I wouldnt marry someone else. Then another day he sarcastically told me I needed a man in my life. He can also make some rude comments about women in general; like "women always need attentiong"; and that men are smarter than woman. One day I took him to play tennis and the whole time he critized me. Everyone tells me I can do better but I feel I really love him. Even with all his faults he's still really sweet sometimes- once he gave me his computer and desk and when it was my birthday and phoned me and sang happy birthday and mailed me a gift (he lives out of state). He'll also say Bye Beautiful everytime we sign off on msn messanger. What do you think I should do? (link)
Hey there

I can relate to this guy...I know im a female, however i have acted this way to a guy before...
My suggestion is that you 'test' him by making him jealous...Talk about another guy...This may just be the wakeup call this guy needs to realise you are not going to wait around forever for him...and that you are desirable to OTHER men....


good luck




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