Member Since: April 30, 2014
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Last Update: April 30, 2014
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So, this weekend just gone I had sex with a guy. Him and his girlfriend were split up at the time and he said they weren't getting back together so I didn't see much of a problem. But the next day he said they sorted things out but he didn't tell her about me and him.
I'm really not comfortable about this as I'm friends with alot of her friends so I'm gunna see her about alot and I hate keeping secrets and lying.
I've tried persuading him, but said I won't say a word until he says something to her 'cause she should really hear it from him not me or someone else. But this also means I can't talk to any of my friends about it, which sucks.
He won't tell her though as she has alot of family problems at the moment and doesn't think she'd be able to handle it and isn't sure what she'd do (guessing he means self harm etc).
Some sort of help would be great as I'm really not keen on this situation and can't chat to anyone! Thank you! (link)
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If you don\'t feel comfortable just tell her. You don\'t owe anything to some loser that used you for sex. I have had this happen to me before and the guy knew very well that everything was going to be fine with his girlfriend the next day. You\'re also right-He is never going to tell her and honestly he\'ll probably end up cheating on her again.
She might not believe you anyway, but she has a right to know...How would you feel if you were committed to a relationship that wasn\'t what you thought it was?
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