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Hi, Im Jamiann and 13 years old..i decided to get a column cause im good at helping people and i have a lot of pets, have a job as a babysitter, have had plenty of friendship problems and stuff like that..im a funny person who will do just about anything to make someone cheer up, so i got this column..hope you lke it..and please...dont be shy to aks me something
Website: Meme's Advice Coulumn,,Everyones Welcome
Gender: Female
Location: Missouri
Occupation: Babysitter
Age: 13
Yahoo: jam_clancy93@yahoo.com
MSN: sweet_spice_93@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 22, 2007
Answers: 13
Last Update: August 15, 2007
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(it's kinda ong and confusing, but please help me)I babysit 1 kid at my house he's 6 years old! He is alot of work and eats alot i mean ALOT!we had dinner once and he had a plate full of mac and cheese,a plate of corn,a plate of chicken and fries! he is also very stuborn!he dosnet listen to the rules i set and makes mess's ,dosnt clean it up and he digs through my stuff and ask if he can have it!And he's family is very rich but i only get $2 an hour.the other dayi babysat him for 7 hours and i got 5 hours worth!how can i ask for more without sounding like a brat! (link)
well..find some recources..in a GL (girls life) magazine i found out that it is only fair to get $5 an hour and i also have a babysitting book that ive had for a few years says the same thing..do any of your friends or someone babysit? if they do ask them ow much they get paid..and also there is a way to ask for more money without sounding greedy or slefish..just say "Mr. and Mrs (so and so), i know that you guys pay for me and all..but i was just woundering if i could have the price raised by a few dollars..i just think that since ive been babysitting for a while but..well..schools starting and i need to buy some new things...please understand that i mean well with the money and im not using you for it" or something else that you might think of...iwish you the best of luck! hope i helped ;]


KIND OF LONG BBUT MUCH NEEDED ADVICE.
Okay, so I really like this guy and he's my neighbour and as far as I know he likes me too. He's going into grade 12 though and I'm going into grade 9, and well, I want to find away to get close to him because I am very shy and I don't want him to think I am retarded, ya know? And now my mom doesn't like his family, because his brother who is my age is my brothers best friend, and well my mom just doesn't want me to see them again, and I don't know how I can get to see him without it being weird & looking like an idiot! He works til 4 pm as well.
WHAT TO DO? as many replies as possible please! (link)
well..do you guys have cell phones?? id suggest getting to know what all he likes...what kindof music does he like and just ask him what his fave things are to do..do you guys have a compter?? IMing each other could help too...hope i helped ;]


I need some games and activities to have the kids play while im babysitting. I babysit often and there ages are from 7-10.

There tired of hide and seak.....GAH! (link)
Ok..well for mi strategy i usually use this thing called a suprise box..if you have any old toys that you used to use wen you were little or sum toys from your lil brother or sister if they have any..the good thing is that this can work for all ages..decorate the box and make it look colorful..make it something that they will look forward of doing whenever you come...hope i helped! ;]


hi, well my freind has been having family problems, and today he told me that he prayed a lot to god, to sort it out and what not, and when he got home, he told me that they were sorting it out, and it was getting better. is this the work of "the allmighty" or just a quencidence, because im not fully persuaded? what do you guys think? thanks (link)
I am a religious person so i think it was God, hes working it out, hes praying, and he strongly beleives..


I babysit these kids A LOT!! There is 1 two year old, one 3 year old, 1 one year old, and 1 eight year old. What kind of games can we play to not be so bored and just watch scooby doo 3000 times.

THANKS :D (link)
I'm a babysitter as well and i read this book that had some really good ideas..do you have any toys laying around your house that you used to have or that you little brother or sister has..ask your parent(s) if its ok to borrow the toys..get a big carboard box and decorate it with colorful paper or paints put toys in it that they might me interested in, its called a suprise box, worked for me! hope i helped =]


ok so i have my own advice column just got it yesterday and i've only answered one persons question so i dont know if you have to have more for it to work but on yours every question has a box outside of it how do you get that? please help!
thanks (link)
ok well you go to coulumn settings then youll see like..patrika and those other things..you can preiview witch one that way you can see which you like best..then if you go all the way down there will be colors listed..you pick one and the you veiw your column and see if you like it..hope i helped =]


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i love my kitten so much but she is so fierce. she doesnt like me at al. i have 4 months with her and she still doesnt like me. she only likes me when i have food. everytime i touch her she starts to bite me and scratch me.she wont let me touch her. i never touch her naymore. i dont know wjhat to do becuase sometimes i just want to pet her and she scratchs me out of no where. she has alott of toys and im so nice to her and i always tell her "no!" and she still doesnt listen to me. what can i do? thanks! (link)
SoCo's right..that would be very handy..thats how i trained one of my cats to get used to our dogs, and i had a cat exactly like yours, it hated everything exceot its mom and brothers and sisters..i just sat around it a lot and talked to it (lol) id get a few pets in here and there...and eventually..he trusted me..try petting it as soon as you put the bowl down too..it just might work..hope i helped =]


okay so theres these guy from a town close to me that ive been hanging with, one of them i cant tell if he likes me or not but he flirts allll the time with me, but hes one of those guys who always does, but i get the feeling he likes me more than friends....then the other guy i can tell likes me, and i think i like him back...but the problem is i think i might like the other one too, whut should i do? (link)
id say..get to know them more..wats their fave thing to do..or their fave stuff..see which one of the guyz has a lot in common with you..if i were you..id go with the one that doesnt but most people go for the one that does..ill let you decide! hope i helped =]


Any picture i try to put as my profile pic do not fit. I try to print screen it then cut it and save as a jpeg, but when i print screen it, nothing happens, and it is already a jpeg file. Once again, how can i make my picture fit the requirements?
Thank you (link)
ok i had this same exact problem today..and you can pnly add one if its less than 15k..you could try editing it (make it smaller in paint) and then try again..hope i helped =]


My best friend talks to this guy online from a town near ours (she met him after she started talking to him online). In short, he's horrible for her.
Why? Well, he does drugs, for one (he has pictures of him doing drugs on his MySpace, too). Not only that, he's told my friend that doing drugs isn't harmful (she knows it IS harmful) and that she should try them. He says that he uses drugs to deal with his mother's death. He's also older, so that makes me question his intentions.
She tells me that she won't go out with him, but since another guy she talked to got a girlfriend, I think she's changed her mind. He sends her cute texts and everything, and I think that's making her blind to all of his faults.

In a nutshell, I care about my friend and I KNOW she deserves better. What should I do?
Thanks in advance to all who read this and answer. (link)
ok well..i know what you mean..my friend does this too..you just have to sit down and talk to her...tell her how you feel..and let her know thet you care about her and wouldnt want anything to happen to her. Say,"I don't think that you and this guy are such a good idea" tell her exactly how you think about his doing drugs is bad..let her know you care..


I have a painful bump that just appeared today on my bottom part of my eye like a little under where you would put eyeliner. It hurts if i touch it feels like a bruise but i know its not because its a bump idk what it is do you have any ideas? Its red its not itchy its just a bump and it hurts. (link)
its most likely a sty..ive had one before..and it will hurt..if your like me..then your eye could even swell up, but no worries..it will go away in about maybe a week or 2..if it hurts too much..then id stop putting on the eyeliner until it heals..hope i helped =]


so basically i want to get a myspace and want to have my parents permission. ive asked them both to have a "meeting" so i can convince them that i should have one. basically they dont want to hear everyone else has it and i can keep in touch with my old friend.. etc. so im going all out and presenting them with this whole thing of reason why its safe. and how i wont do this yada yada yada ik it seems over board but i really want it. so i came across that you can message people you are not friends with and i wanted to know i there is anyway to block that feature. also if anyone can bring up good "topics" that can help me, those would be apprieciated. any thing that would convince them would be helpful. also if you have info i need proof like internet pages that states these facts would be nice. thank you so much in advance. (link)
Ok..well i have some backup to your'convincing the parents' thing...you can set your profile settings to private..to where no one but your friends on myspace can see your profile..you can also edit a whole lot of other things to where if someone comments your profile..you can approve the comment before its seen on there..if you would like some other help..just let me know and ask me more questions on my advice coulun..hope i helped.. =]


Ok well my dog Adrian died and its really hard for me and i keep thinking about her....And i WONT ever forget her though....And i like loved her and i still do and shes buried in the backyard so i can see her...And it just makes it harder....Please Help... (link)
Not to long ago..my dog died too..im 13 and i had her since i was 6..it was VERY hard for me to let her go..and shes baried in my back yard too..i see her from time to time and i always think of how goood of a dog she was..she was deaf..but she was quite the talker..heh..im not telling you to stop greiving or anything..because you cant..some people just dont understand..someday youll know that shes still with you and youll see her again someday..hope i helped




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