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Hello, I posted last week asking for advice on this matter. My boyfriend of two years and myself recently discovered I was pregnant. Him already having a daughter that I am helping raise. We both decided now was not the time for another child if we wanted to progress in life at the moment. Well I decided instead to go for surgical. The most physical and emotionally painful thing I have experienced in some time. Luckily he was by my side every minute. Afterwards I cried and cried for several hours. He went to sleep and I continued to cry. I feel extreme guilt and sorrow over this. Half of me pictured another sweet little girl like his with darkhair, fair skin, and a sweet smile. I didnt want his.little girl confused though as to why another child could call me.mommy but she couldn't. I still feel guilty and upset about it. It was very traumatizing. How do I let this go? Any woman or even men know any post abortion methods that helped relinquish their minds of guilt and sorrow in the slightest? (link)
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You know what dear? I went through the same thing, but many years ago and for similar reasons. I felt so guilty too.
We both know that event will never be forgotten. But the hurt and guilt does get better with time. You know what helped me the most? When I was ready, I volunteered working with children who were in need of kindness and it helped. Another thing that helped was an understanding partner. I hope this helps you.
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