Hey there, my name is Andie Smith and i am an advice columnist in my upcoming ezine.I love people and i have discovered that i have a knack for solving other peoples problems, so, it seemed only right that i become either an advice columnist or a PR woman!If there's anything you need you can talk to me, u know how to reach me. l8tr!
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ok there is this kid he wants me dead and i didnt do anything to him!! what should i do? hes nice to eevryone else but not me! i need help! badly! (link)
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wow,this kid just may be a total jerk who needs someone to pick on.Try talking to him, ask him why he's cool with everyone else,but totally goes gollum on you.If he can't give you a good reason,as to why you're his primary target, i suggest getting out of dodge and staying there.He can't pick on you if you're not around. good luck!
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I need help on asking a guy to come and watch a movie with me...i don't know how please help!!
I don't wanna look like a doofus.....lol:) (link)
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Do you know the kind of movies he likes? If so you could say "hey, i just rented this movie and i think you'd like it, wanna come over and watch it?". Play it calm though, if he sees you nervous, it could make him think it's a bigger deal than it is, thereby making him nervous and you appear very sketchy! Good luck!
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Ive met this great man and we get along in all aspects, but from the start he has said hes not sure about a relationship because of his past. Hes been so hurt and has built this huge wall around him. I have made it clear from the beginning that i do want a relationship. Who doesnt want to be loved as long as its with the right person? He has just recently figured out that i have started having feelings for him and it scares him. Now im scared of how honest to be with him about it because i dont want to lose him from my life, hes also a great friend. On the other hand i wish there was something i could do to get him to see how great we would be in a relationship. Help me, ive been seriously hurt in the past as well and i dont like this feeling i have in my stomach. What should i do? I am 33 years old and hes 36 and we both have children from previous relationships. (link)
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Congradulations, you have found a man! (Which is more than i can say for 40% of the women, i meet everyday).As for keeping him,i would like to say that there is no universal pep talk, you could give him to ease his fears, the best thing you can do is plead your case, and leave him alone.If his heart has been broken, he needs to see for himself that you are someone who will mend his fences,not jump right over them.The flipside to this: some walls can't be broken down;Even if you feel 100% sure you can make it work, he may not.If this turns out to be the case,then he might be a lost cause.
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I'm not sure how many of you will remember but I am the girl who talks to her boyfriend on the phone, and I was afraid that I was caught because we were talking dirty on the phone. The link is [ http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=300878 ], incase anybody else wants to answer, but anyway, I am thinking that my mom may not know because she said that nobody thinks I am doing anything, and tonight, I was just talking to him, and she came up in my room, and said, "I came to ask if the conversations up here are clean" And I said yes and asked her why, and she said, "your sister told me to come and ask because I asked her." Ok, that makes me think that only my little sister may know, but I need other opinions on it, because I just need help here, could somebody please just lay out their opinion?
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Hey there,Your mom probably knows, because your little sister knows, and we all know how good small children are at keeping things to themselves.Obviously, since your mom, didn't bust you on it right away,she probably isn't too peeved about it,and will most likely not bring it up again.However i suggest moving the nursery rhymes to the closet, it might afford you a bit more privacy, and a lot less time in solitary confinement for talking dirty.
>Andie
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