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Lets say a girl loses their virginity to a guy, is it wrong for her to stop talking to him for a while? How long is too long? How about like 3 weeks? And what impression does the girl give off by not talking to him? And how does or could the guy feel? (link)
i think it is okay to take some time to think about what you have done. Although, i do think that if he tries to contact you, certainly talk to him and let him know that you are dealing with this 'change?' it is a big step towards womanhood and it is something that one must process. It's ok to take a time out but make sure he knows that you don't hate him. Good Luck!!!


im not sure how long i should wait until i like, go to third base [as in blowjob] with this guy. like ive never done it, and hes gotten head before. im nervous, but i know im always gonna be nervous no matter when i decide to. i just dont know peoples opinions on it. like, is it the same thing as sex where you have to be in love? is it trashy if your dating? how long after you start dating is it socially acceptable. im a sophmore, and hes a junior. at this age, i know he expects it, and the pressures on. so i just want honest opinions. not like "ohhh do it when your ready!" cause i know ill never be completely ready. ok well thanks :D (link)
Don't do it if you're not comfortable, don't let him pressure you, if he does he isn't worth your time girl, in today's day and age alot of things are acceptable when they didn't use to be. Although your grandma would still have a canary, LOL. Just remember to respect yourself first. don't let peer pressure push you into anything that you might regret later. Giving head is something that can be very enjoyable by both parties once boundaries have been established. Good Luck!


Okay, so im 19 years old, and i just started using Tampons today...weird i know. But ive always been kinda freaked out about shoving a thing up inside of me. Dont get me wrong, i love sex, its just doing it myself that freaks me out.

So, i put one in this morning, and that went find, other than my obvious nervousness. BUT Im just curious, how long should i leave one in? Is there a way to tell?

And when i took it out and put a new one in there was no blood on the applicator. Like...does it absorb all the blood on the way out?

Also, is it okay to sleep with one in? I know u can get TSS and stuff, but any horror stories? Id really rather not use a Pad to sleep anymore. They just make me feel disgusting. Especially now that i live with my boyfriend.

Thanks so much for your help!!!! (link)
you can leave a tampon in for approximately 4 hours. but sometimes if you leave them in that long (depending on your flow) you may still leak and make a yucky mess. you must learn with trial and error how long to leave one in. yes you can sleep with one in, it won't hurt you just make sure you remove it first thing in the morning. Good Luck!


Hi There..

I'm just wondering, I know that if a girl hasn't had sex before she's married then she's able to wear a white dress and if she has had sex before marriage she is able to wear an off white dress..

Is it up to the individual girl as to whether she wears a white dress even if she has had sex before marriage? Or is it the 'rules' that she is to wear an off white dress if she's had sex before hand?

Thank you :D (link)
This is how i see it, the "rules" that you speak of are merely traditions. If you would rather wear a white dress then by all means wear a white dress, it is your special day and it is your choice of what you wear. Congrats. And good luck!




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