I’ve been living at my current apartment for 2 years and my lease isn’t up until next year. The last two people who have moved in are loud. Granted the walls are thin. One issue I had was my neighbor would allow his alarm to go off and it would wake me up at 4 in the morning. I told the property manager and they talk to him about. But, I started sleeping in my living room because he would talk and I could here him and his tv would be up. So I started sleeping in my living room. This new person who is a female kept me up all til midnight talking with her friend. Based on her conversation, she seems toxic and no one I want to be around. It’s upsetting because I’m nice and too myself and plus I just want peace. I’m like why do I have to go through this. This is the 2nd floor I would think it’d be people who are quieter. Plus, they’re older than me so I feel they should know to be consider. Now, I’m going back to sleeping in my room because I don’t want to hear her all night.
How do I deal with this? I should move but what can I do in the meanwhile?
Honestly I didn't realize how me listening to music or talking on the phone was affecting my neighbors. She eneded up writing a note on my door explaining kindly that I was keeping her up at night and she let me know her work schedule so that I can keep an open mind. So I did cut her some slack.. but than she started to just complain about me vacuuming in the morning washing dishes and those nice notes I started to read them as if she. Was talking crap lol. I would say stop by let them know if your shy leave a friendly note.
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Hi,
My husband and I are very happily married. One thing that's surprised me though is our different libidos. When we first started having sex, we were about evenly matched for the first year- we basically did it whenever we were able.
Now though, I (the wife) am finding that my drive is much higher than my husband's. I want to do it about once per day, while my husband wants to do it once every 1-2 weeks. I've heard that most couples are reversed, with the guy usually having the higher drive.
There are many days when I feel frustrated and undesirable. But when I ask my husband to have sex more than once a week but he gets really tired and I feel guilty afterwards. What can I do to reduce my frustration?
Wow girl, I been in the same boat and what I did was buy a toy, and trust me I love my man and sex is 10×100 with him. My sex drive is a little high and he works a lot and very tired when he gets home so on the side I have the toy that vibrates. Now he did notice it and I told him my back ache time to time and mine looks very unber cover got it from Amazon. Any other questions on how to use or any thing lol hit me privately i got you 😉
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