Member Since: November 22, 2004
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Last Update: November 22, 2004
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alrighty..well I am 14 and a female & I have this really good guy friend but a few months ago I started feeling differently about him..I told one of my friends and of course she had a big mouth and everyone knew..including him*. So he started being a jerk around me and just ignored me so I figured two could play that game & I just got really pissed at him. I was really hurt that he would ever treat me like that. So then, about 2 weeks later we were all hanging out together like usual but it felt really awkward between me and him. So he pulled me aside and we talked everything out & the only reason why he wasnt talking to me was bcuz the person I told that I liked him went back and told him that I absolutely hated him and never wanted to talk to him again..so yea..we hugged and made up all was well..and I also found out that he liked me too...and from what I know..he still does and so do I..but a few weeks ago he told everyone he was gonna ask me out that night but he never showed..i didn't want to start anything again so I just dropped it, but my friend didnt she told him that he didnt know how to treat girls and he wasnt boyfriend material. This bothered him..I would know bcuz I'm the one he came to and he also wanted to make sure he wasnt being a jerk to me...I know he cares about me and I want to be more than friends but hes too scared to make the move..and my theory is that guys should be the one to make the 1st move..what should i do? this has been going on for too long now. (link)
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First of all I think you need to talk to you friend and see why she keeps telling him the opposite of what you actually feel. I believe that she might be facing some issues of jelousy maybe because she likes him or maybe just because shes afraid if you get a boyfriend you wont be spending any time with her. Once you get that settled, go talk to the guy you like and tell him exactly how you feel. Ask him what he thinks and tell him he needs to go with his heart and stop worrying about what everyone else thinks.
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