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Q: My dad used to be really mean to my mom, and would treat me and her badly, and alot of stuff, I wont go into detail, but now he says he is sorry, and how he wants MY MOM bak, not really me. He just uses me to get to MY MOM. Like he willl only take me to the movies if my mom comes, and so on. But i like to be with him .But the thing is that the last 3 years i cut him out of my life, becuase he was so mean to us, and now he wants to a part of my life. I kno it is good to 4giv, but i 4 gave him so many times. I stood up 4him so many times, when no one else wud. Is this the last straw or no? Can you plz give me some advice?
My step-father is similiar. He and I have never really gotten along and I never appreciated the way he treats my mother and my siblings.....and i even went away for a while because our arguments got so very serious...now that I'm back home....I don't even try to be his friend, or fight at all....I spend as little time as possible around me.
I don't want to be hurt anymore..so I won't allow myself to be hurt.
It's really the same for you, a zebra cannot change his stripes.....the same for people....he might be different right now, but he will go back to his old ways once he feels comfortable.


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