Member Since: March 18, 2004
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Last Update: March 18, 2004
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My bf loves me so much and he says he wont make me have sex with him, but he says it all the time. Is it just me or should I feel like I'm a bad girlfriend for not haveing sex with him... I mean Hes saying I dont have to but in his mind i know hes saying 'i want sex, i mean we've been together for 3 month,.. havent you kept me waiting'. I guess my question is, what should i do,.. should i do what my heart says and not have sex with him because i'll be breaking my religous promise, or have sex with him so I can keep him? I know I'm making it sound like hes a bad guy bad hes not hes a sweet heart.... (link)
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Ok first of all, if your boyfriend truly loves you then this whole sex thing will not be a problem at all. So, if he breaks up with you just because you won't have sex with him, there are bigger issues that need to be dealt with and from the sounds of it, he seems like he doesn't really care. Sure, guys like sex, but the good guys will wait until they have meet someone who they truly want to share this with. Second of all, sex, especially for the first time is quite a big deal. If you are not comfortable with each other and don't truly want to have sex, it's going to be absolutely horrible and could cause more problems then actually solving them. So do what you feel is best for you and if your boyfriend is truly special he will be there for you no matter what.
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