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Okay so, my friend really likes this girl. But thing is I guess, they have been maybe starting to flirt or talking serous. But he is always complaining that he always catches her texting her ex or other boys, I know her pretty well. Also and i think she is a flirt, and has low self confidence and likes when more than one boy tells her she is pretty. But I also kinda understand if she doesn't like him that way because all three of us have been really close friends. For awhile idk I just feel bad for him I feel like he is getting lead on..if you were in this situation what would you do? or what advice would you give.
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Well, I know as a teenager what it feels like to lead on or to feel that way. First of all, let me commend you on being there for your friend. That is a true friend. Now, on to the situation. I once felt like that girl; having low self esteem and when guys tell me I shouldn\'t I want every guy to get attached to me. And then when they are attached to me, I can\'t decide who I want, but the feeling is just right. I can\'t be mad at her, but I do think it is wrong that she is leading him on. If she likes him and most importantly respects him and his feelings, she wouldn\'t be doing this. I would talk to her, and let her know your best friends feelings are for you to protect, and not for anyone to hurt. And that she needs to tell your friend that truth, because at the end of the day, your friend will be emotionally damaged if she is not honest with him.
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