Well, let us start out with some details/background information. I am a few weeks away from being 16 and my boyfriend is 18. We've been together for a while and I love the kid to death. It's safe to say that even if we did break up; we'd be the best of friends after the fact.
I'm going to be moving somewhere an hour and a half away, he was going to move with my guardian and myself. But he has a lot in this town and we've collectively last night decided it'd be in his best interest to stay here. It was a bit upsetting. I know it doesn't seem like much only moving an hour or so away; but he's starting college, working, and he's in a well known band doing shows all over. I'll be in school for a longer period of time and going to college while in high school along with a job. We'll never really have the time to see each other at all. In all honesty I don't know what posting this will do. But I'm at a loss as to what I should do? I don't even know if it's that. Any advice?
You're right. There isn't much to advise on, the situation is what it is. BUT...always remember that people that want to see each other MAKE time to do so. If either of you find that you have to keep asking the other to find time, it's time to respectfully let the other know that it's time to move on. And do so before the friendship gets ruined.
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Hello 15/F*
My mom keeps reading my diary! I try to hide it but she is allways snooping around!! I write EVERYTHING °̩n there because that's the way I express my feelings. I don't act weird I'm allways bubbly, but I have my down days. Why does she keep reading it. And any good ideas where to hide it? I can't hide it °̩n my matress or pillow. So any other ideas? ThxX lvj! XxX
Moms just wants to know what's going on with you and doesn't believe you'll tell her the important stuff. If you have a private locker at school, keep it there. You could also put it in the sleeve of a coat or jacket that hangs in your closet, but doesn't get worn often. In the meantime, let your mom in on a few important things. When she handles them well, tell her you like how she handled it and you'll probably tell her other things. When she doesn't handle it well tell her she's making it hard for you to talk to her. AND let her know that you don't understand why she doesn't trust you to manage some thoughts and feelings on your own. Tell her you may not always tell her, but you remember her advice on how to live and use it more than she thinks.
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