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Hi my name is Jess, please feel welcomed to ask me any questions that need answering, no need to feel embarrassed i am just here to help.

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hi im sixteen in tenth grade and my ex is sixteen in eeventh .ok so i dated my ex boyfriend for lik a month or two and then he told me he was still n love with his ex so we slpit...we attend thasame skul and after a while we started tlking again by tht time he had apoligized about ha whole situation...recently weve been hangin out and ove had a ball and ivetold him tht i can onli see us as friends but he doesnt and is still trying tu b wit me he buy me things treats me rite he really thinks im perfect but i jus cant see us being tugether and no matter how hard i try he wont get tha pic tht i dont like him n tht way nemore...but i really dont kno howw tu get out of this situation..hes oo sweet andi cant hurt him...once again ive tried TELLING the TRUTH already soo...any oother suggestions of wat i should do?

Pull him aside, be straight with him, but also gentle, if he persists just say that you only want to be friends with him, if things get more serious, you're better off not being friends with him, also try not to flirt or give him the wrong idea.

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him: hi
me: hi..
him: how have you been
me: greattt. you?
him: good. why have you been great?
me: haha idkk?
him: oh are you still talking to that guy
me: me and him are straight. were friends and stufff
him: oh that's good. do you miss me?
me: yeah.
him: can I have a pic
me: no.
him: why
me: cause I never got one that one time and you always randomly start talking to me and expect to get wahtever you want
(he then sent me one of him)
him: I haven't had my phone. I awlasy lose it and you know that
me: yeah.
him: I just sent you a pic
me: I know.
him: whatever bye
me: what?
him: your being gay
me: haha how
him: I say
me: alright I sent you a pic
him: a good one cause I will send you a good one if you want
me: no.
him: why
me: cause you have a girlfriend and I'm not gonna send you those kind of pictures whenever you want them.
him: me and her are on a break. we got in a huge fight this weekend. please can I have one
me: hahhh. no.
him: please just send me an old one and I sent you one
me: I sent you one.
him: thanks but a nude one.
me: noo. I'm sick and laying in bed. and I'm deff not sending you a nude one.
him: why I just did. please beautiful
me: no.
him: please one of each and ill just keep bugging you too.
me: no. why can't you ever have a normal conversation with me for once. you only talk to me for one reason and that's for pictures. I'm not that stupid.
him: that's not true. if you send them to me I will talk to you for a month and ill tlak to you more. I wanna talk more again.
me: yeah and the only reason why you wanna talk to me is because you're on a break with your other girl.
him: whatever think what you want. you're the one who cheated twice.
me: stop bringing that up.
him: ok then be nice. lets go back to the way we were.
me: I am being nice. and yeah about that..
him: can I have them now
me: nooo
him: please.
me: no. I'm not gonna say yes so just stop asking.
him:please. just one pick and ill stop asking
me: I sent one.
him: thanks.
me: mhmm. sowaht are you doing
him: nothing. you
me: watching the sox game and being sad.
him: why you sad.
me: I hate when people die and I miss how we used to be.
him: haha welll that's not gonna change for a while.
me: yeahhh
me: I really miss you :/
him: I miss you too
me: mhmmm I'm sureee.
him: yeah
me: so I've been asking my dad if were gonna go down there and I don't think we are :/
him: that sucks
me: I guess.
me: you don't seem like you wanna talk so ill just go. bye I guess.
him: ill text you after work.

that was our conversation.
what do you tihnk from it? I don't think he will text me after work. and I think he only wanted one thing from tlaking to me. and that was the pics. but I think he still cares about me and thinks about me and everything. becuase he always brings up the fact that I cheated so I think it bothers him alott

He does not have feelings for you, he is just pretending to, only to get one thing from you. He has another girlfriend and you should not get caught up in the middle of them, he doesn't deserve you, don't give up there are plenty more fish in the sea.

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