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okay so i've been dating this guy for about 8 months. he was seriously my other half, he was the love of my life and i seriously loved him and every moment i spent with him and i got that "undescribable feeling" when he looked me in the eyes up until the day we broke up...recently we've been talking and hanging out again....however i don't really feel comfortable around him...i know he doesn't judge me and loves me but i still get nervous around him because i love him so much...and like i can't be without makeup around him..i trust him and love him but i'm just not comfortable...we've been talking about getting together but idk if i should get together with someone i don't feel completely comfortable with...even if i do love him to death..or are there any ways to make me more comfortable? he said he would never judge me and everything but i still get nervous around him and want to be perfect =/ (link)
That would be because you are uncomfortable with yourself. Ive been with my partner for 19 months and I still feel uncomfortable around him, I think its because I have a lack of self esteem and because Im still nervous around him cos he can still make my heart flutter. I say give it a go and only time will tell whether you feel more comfortable with him.


O.k. So i am 13 and i havent tarted my peiriod yet. But im geting Yellow discharge and i dont want to go to my grandma because its imberrising. Its not chunkey and its not dirty down there but im not sure whats going on.Is it an infection and can i fix it by myself? IF so, How? Is this sierious? California is my state!! :) (link)
If it's itching, smelly and sore then you need to go see a doctor, other than that it sounds like a common thing most girls go through when starting puberty.


ok ive liked this guys for six months and he just asked me out like 4 days ago and i was thinking about how much i liked him compared to all of my other boyfriends and this by far is the most serious one even tho weve only been going out for 4 days it feels like i really do love him , but im have 2nd thoughts about telling him how i feel because (1 we are to totally different people as in he isnt a virgin and i am he does pot and i dont and i dont have a problem with him doing it , its just im not sure how he would react (2 he might think im nuts and walk away and tell his friends so they can stare at me even more at me during lunch (3 he may not feel the same way about me . and i have a friend of his who is a friend of mine and says that he talks about me all the time and in the "good" way. ok well let me get to the point im leaving this summer for 3 months and im leaving in about a month and i seriously cant stand not seeing him and i wanted to tell him how i felt befor i left ... should i?
*~a person with love issues~* (link)
This is a hard one, but I personally believe that it's only been 4 days but if you are going away for 3 months then I think the best way to tell him is to write him a letter and tell him not to read it before you go and therefore he can have time to sit and think about how you feel, on the other hand, the risk is that he goofs off about it and tells his friends, but if he's like that then he's not worth your time. Its a risk you have to take and I say TAKE IT! You'll regret it if you don't. Hope my advice helps


I am a 17 year old high school senior, (female) and have been trying to think of my boyfriend of 6 months. I use all possible terms of endearment for anyone. And I want something specail for my guy. He is amazing, smart, a year younger than me, an AMAZING soccer player, with a gorgeous body. He treats me wonderfully, not only does he say that if I need something he is there for me, but he truely is there for me and I truely adore him :) he is 5'9" which isn't very tall but he towers over my 5'3" frame. Ah! I am crazy for this guy.. But any ideas?? He calls me boo boo and baby boo (link)
Names such as baby, darling etc are general names, my best advice is think of something personal. You said he's a good soccer player with a great body, so maybe legs 11. Think of what really reminds you of him. For example, when I started meeting my partner we started chatting over msn and he asked me how I was and I typed back "goos" meaning to say "good" so from then on we call each other goose and I never have come across a couple calling each other that! Nobody can tell you what to call him because nobody will know him as well as you, so just be personal about it. Hope my advice helps.


I had all three Gardasil shots, and finished with them about a year before I became sexually active. My boyfriend and I use birth control pills but not condoms.

In the last few months, he's developed warts on his pelvic area, just above his penis and just a few on his penis itself. He had them once before, but it was over 6 years ago, and they went away on their own. Yes, they were looked at by a doctor then and they told him it was a form of genital warts.

I have no symptoms of genital warts at this point but I'm worried. I can't get in to see my gynecologist for 2 months. Even with the Gardasil, am I at a high risk for contracting some form of HPV? (link)
Well, In my personal opinion and been through the same thing as you. Genital warts can be easily spread, they are a common virus. You can get them through skin to skin contact, even if you have all the injections and your boyfriend where's a condom. I suggest that you get your boyfriend to get them treated instead of waiting for them to go by themselves, he has numerous of options to get rid of them, he can have them frozen, burnt or cream. My ex partner had to have all 3 and the most comfortable is the cream obviously, but takes a lot longer to get rid of them, however the most painful is getting it burnt, however gets rid of them straight away. I may warn you that this is a virus and your partner will carry the virus for 2 and a half years after getting rid of them, if he gets them again in that 2 and a half years then the virus will start again for another 2 and a half years. If you have had sex with him whilst he has had the genital warts then you will have the virus, however, the warts may not appear on you and therefore cannot be treated, but you will carry the virus for 2 and a half years, if you have any further questions on this please let me know as I am very educated on this topic.




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