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Last Update: June 12, 2009
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please read it all i know its long but i can use the advice

ive been dating my bf for a year now. a week into the relationship our friend invited my bf, kailey, and i to hang in her pool. i couldnt go, it turns out they dared him to take off his trunks he did. so he was naked in a pool w/2 girls and i didnt find out until a month later from the "friend" that invited them. about a month into the relationship he "cheated" on me with kailey. she asked him to tell her what he would do to her if he didnt have a gf (they were on the phone). he told her he would have laid her on her couch, kiss her, her neck, take off her shirt, kiss her chest, and press against her. he stopped and she said "you can keep going" and he said he had to go to bed. i found out 2 days later from a friend who heard from the friend of kailey. 4 months in they were at a friends house and he had fallen asleep on the couch she sat on him and poked him awake. he told her to get off and he started tickeling her. she started laughing and moving around. they started dry humping for like 3 minutes. i found out 2 days later from him. i droped her and since then i havent let go of any of the three things. we argue alot on it and he brings up the fact that would flirt w/a guy i had liked for months, i ask him ? on the night but he always says "you ask me the same damn ?s all the time ive answered them what more do you want", i want to trust them i want to be friends w/ her and i really want to get over this. i dont let him go because ive been with him for over a year i love him completly and he was my first time so thats not easy to let go. i want ways to get over this or ways to deal w/thsi bc its starting to take over my life. please help thanks. (link)
Can't put it better than es, he's a waste of time and space. Leave him and find somebody who respects you. A relationship is worthless without trust and loyalty, something this guy will never give you.




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