Member Since: January 3, 2005
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I found out yesterday that a good friend of mine was killed at a party. Someone had slipped ecstasy in her drink and then she was brutally raped while she was passed out. I feel like this is all my fault. The reason being is because I always went to parties with her and I would always tell her "Beck, don't drink at parties". She'd always yell at me and tell me that I acted like her mother. But I knew I was right, I don't trust the drinks that people hand out at parties. The guy that raped her was my ex-boyfriend. I still feel like this was all my fault because, had I been there, he wouldn't have done anything to her because he's afraid of me. I'm sure by now you're all probably thinking "This is a load of bull" but believe it. This actually happens to people. She was my best friend. I knew I should have gone with her to that party. I'm completely miserable right now. She was my best friend. I always figured that nothing like that could ever hit so close to home. I'd always see stories like this on the news and I'd think to myself "How could they be so stupid?" Or, "That would never happen where I live." But it has. I don't know how to handle this. My ex boyfriend was arrested and my friends family is waiting to go to court but in the time being, I don't know how to handle myself. I don't even have the courage to go to her funeral tomorrow. I need help getting through this. Please help me... Thank you for those who take this seriously. I would really also like a non-sarcastic answer because this is a touchy subject for me. Thank you.
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O.K- Go to her funeral tomorrow because it will help you. I'm so sorry about your loss. It's not your fault, Hun. It really sin't. You can't say you didn't warn her. Because you told her not to drink at parties and it's no ones fault but her own. Don't worry. I know how it is to lose someone close to you forever. Trust me. It's really O.K. You need to go to her funeral. If you did, it would show that you really care about her and you love her and honnor her. Not honoring her death but honoring her as a person. I'm really sorry about her death. It was her fault. Don't trust people who give out drinks because they do nothing but evil stupid crap and that's what scares me. I never thought I'd have to answer a question like this. I am so close to crying. I am so sorry. I would never have a sarcastic remark. Sorry my answer is so long but I can't help it. LOL. I hope you decide to go to her funeral. O.K? XOXO Good luck!
~~~Kayla~~~
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