Member Since: December 26, 2011
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Hi, I'm 14 and recently started dating one of my really good male friends. I really like him, and want to stay with him for a while. But I have had a crush on another guy who I've talked to like four times the whole year, and it didn't subside when this guy asked me out...but I had a crush on him too. What I'm saying is, is it ok for me to have a crush on someone else while I'm dating someone I like as well, as long as I don't make a move on this crush? I barely talk to this crush and there is no action between us, but I can't help liking him as well as my boyfriend. Is this okay? (link)
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It's fine to have all these feelings for people! You can't stop it! Don't dump your BF and definetly DONT run after your crush. I once dumped a boy and realised just how much I really loved him. Now he is not so much my guy friend and momments are really awkward between us. All I'm saying is it's ok to be feeling these feelings but don't dump a really good BF!
Hope I helped :D
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hi, boyfriend of 2 years got me a xmas card that says, ''you're the love of my life and heart of my christmas''? what does he exactly mean? he has said, i'm the love of his life before as well. thanks. (link)
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I agree with 'Fankyfrank' He is obviously just trying to show his unconditional love for you. He is expressing his feelings the way my boyfriend does. It sometimes gets really annoying but it feels great when you think back on it and laugh (or cry, depends)
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I'm a junior in highschool, during the school week I take my best friend Jessica to school and home ai dont charge her gas money. At the beginning of the school year we would hang out on weekends and basically every chance we got so I didn't mind giving her a free ride. but, recently she has only talked to me when it's convenient for her. She doesn't text me on weekends, like i'll text her on friday and ask if she wants to hang out and she'll never reply but then she'll reply to my text messages that involve her getting to school that following monday. Right now, where on christmas break I haven't hung out with her once! i've texted her so many times and she doesn't reply, i'll get on twitter and see her tweets. If thats not being used, then I don't know what used is. When we go back to school, I want to tell her either you give me gas money or no ride for you, but I don't want to be harsh about it. I've been thinking this through and I honestly dont want to give her a ride period but since we have the same first period and the same last period it's kind of hard to get out of that. How can I tell her from now on I want gas money without being rude? and how can I confront her about how I am tired of her using me again without being rude? (link)
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I suggest that you approach your friend and say:
"Hey Jessica, you know, I was thinking and I think it's kind of unfair how I give you rides and everything but you only pay attention to me when it's about picking you up or dropping you off, I thought we were best friends? If you just want rides that's fine but I would would appreciate some gas money, I mean, I'm not your personal chauffeur!I give you rides, you give me money, no money, no ride, simple as that. Thanks."
Hope I helped! :D
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