Member Since: November 1, 2010
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Last Update: November 7, 2010
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I have been married a little over a year. I didnt know my husband very long before we got married but I loved him I know I did and I still do but he wont work, he doesnt help with house work unless i beg him to please help me. He complains when i go to work and has to stay home with our daughter. I have a 3 year old son who isnt is. But my son knows him as his father. It just seems like he is constantly yelling at him. Hes spanked him before and left a big hang print but he doesnt touch him now since i yelled about it and made him apoligize. We have been arguing a lot. We have our good days and our bad but it seems to just get worse. Weve has fights were hes taken a part off my car so i couldnt leave but he told me to get the F out. I love him and care about him I just dont know what to do. I am looking for support and advice and your opinion please and thank you (link)
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It is very obvious from your post that you love your husband and care very deeply about what has happened to your relationship. That said, it can not be denied, and you can not allow yourself to deny that the behavior you have described by yor husband is wrong, and down right abusive. You may still have very strong emotional feelings towards him, feelings you describe as love, but his behavior is endangering you and the welfare of your children. For the sake and safety of yourself and your children, putting as much distance as possible between you and your husband is wise even necessary. He's obviously immature in many respects and may have other serious issues only he can come to grips with and seek professional help for. And while it may be challenging, you have what it takes to change your circumstances: You have the courage to recognize warning signs in your relationship that many would rather ignore; you can earn a living; and additional support to help you through this difficult time can often be found through family, close friends, and organizations that help women just like you gather all the necessary resources needed to care for themselves and their children. No one should have to endure abuse from any one let alone those who vow to love us in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad times. You deserve better. You deserve happiness and love.
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