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No long intro, Im 22 (female) and he is 18.
We both met/got to know each other in february. I met him online and we have pretty much the same friend group. We were always kinda attracted to each other and on 29th of june he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes.
We couldnt meet up in august, which made me overthink a lot. I knew he had A LOT of work. He would basically work all day because he got 3 jobs at the same time. The only time he had was on sundays but he needs some time for himself as well, so I respected that. We still played games together, or watches tv shows.

Yesterday we had this conversation about how he is scared that I will lose interest and leave him. Im in love with him and would in almost every scenario work things out rather than to break up. I explained that he might be projecting but he denied it. He doesnt want me to see him with his hair undone because hes afraid that I might not like it?
Hes also mentioned that he has no guarantee that im gonna be forever on his side, so hes scared and doesnt know how to act.
I stopped turning on my facecam for him when we talk nor did I ask him out recently to do something together. He always sees me play with other people.

MY QUESTION now is: Am I overthinking or does he want to give us slowly up? I dont need a guarantee to work on this relationship but he on the other side needs some sort of idk... confirmation which I obviously cant give him.
He got betrayed a lot in his life, so I understand his struggles. I will always support him no matter what though.
im just really confused


thank you for reading.

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My friend "Jane" (34F) and I (24M) have been friends for about 5 years now. We tell each other almost everything and can always complain to each other or ask the other for advice. It's pretty much great, but the one thing about it that I absolutely cannot stand is the fact that she very frequently cancels on plans last minute. She has a slew of physical and mental health problems, so I know that she's not cancelling for the sake of just not wanting to do anything. However, it's gotten to a point where whenever I try to make plans, I have to constantly verify with her that she is, in fact, following through. The instance that made me write this post was that today, we were expecting to play Pathfinder with a group of friends. I am the GM and put a lot of time into this week's plan for the session. Early this morning, I got a message from one member of the group saying that they can't make it. Sure, one person is fine, we have 4 others. We can roll with it. A few minutes ago, not even three hours from when we are supposed to meet, Jane tells me she isn't feeling well and won't be able to come. I called to confirm to see if it's something minor that she thinks might pass before the time comes for the session, and she just apologizes and says she can't make it. I hang up and immediately, admittedly hastily, sent a message to the group chat that the session is cancelled for this week since I planned a whole huge event in game and two people are going to miss it and I have nothing prepared as back up. I'm sitting here writing this up now not sure how to feel. Angry? Apathetic? Sad? It's one thing if she cancels on us going shopping or something like that, but I spent so much time preparing for this and although I know it wasn't really something that could be helped, it just makes me hesitate more and more whether or not to include her in things in the future. Is there a way I can tell her how much this upsets me without coming across as rude or seeming like I'm not understanding of the fact that sometimes it really is out of her control?

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What are some preventive measures to help control diabetes?
I need to know some preventive measures to help control diabetes if anyone knows

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