Member Since: February 14, 2013
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Last Update: February 14, 2013
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So, a few years back when I was pretty much still a dumb teenager, I experimented with another girl, but I was too scared to make anything out of it because all my friends were ganging up on us about it and every time we were finished doing something together, I would feel awful about it. We didn't have sex or anything, just touching and kissing. And I felt like I shouldn't have done it, but I couldn't help it.
Well, just the other night, I had a dream about her after all this time where she was touching me and I remember feeling extremely happy during the dream, but I woke up and panicked because I haven't felt like doing anything with a girl since that time and now suddenly, I'm thinking about her a lot and noticing girls in that way. I also haven't spoken to this girl in a very long time. We had a really bad falling out that had a lot to do with what we did and hid from our friends.
What I'm wondering is if this makes me bisexual or what? I mean, we both have boyfriends. She's still on my Facebook and it says she's in a relationship with some guy. But I'm still not sure. It's stressing me out big time. (link)
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If your bisexual your bisexual, if your gay your gay, if your straight your straight. NEVER let your friends or society influence your sexuality, in our society - this day and age - nothing is "right" or "wrong". I believe maybe you did like her more than you even thought you did in the past but society saying "thats wrong" and your friends making you feel bad never allowed you to realize how much you could possibly like another girl, and that is why you had a dream about her most likely. Your dream was bringing out your repressed feelings about your past with her, what you wished happened with her at the time and you didn't realize it maybe even until now. Thats just an hypothesis though, who knows why you had a dream about her. To answer your question about you being bisexual... well I don't think you are because you having nothing but this to base it off of, theres nothing wrong with experimenting, maybe you should do something with a girl to see if you truly like it or not (not behind your boyfriends back though) i'd let him be there for it or at least ask for his permission...or if your bf gets as lucky as as i do with my gf youll let him join in too! (but that might throw things off if you truly like girls tho i dont know) Goodluck with everything. Remember theres nothing wrong with being bi! a lot of people are at least a little bi.
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