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My friend cuts herself. And it really scares me she talks about killing herself sometimes. Like she thinks no one would miss her. Sometimes I wanna kill myself too but I realize how many people would miss me. But she doesn't seem to realize that. She doesn't cut herself often like she only did once but I am just scared it might become a habit. What should I do? And its not that serious enough to tell anybody yet and she would get really mad if I told anyone. I don't plan on doing anything until it gets worse like i see marks on her arms. What should I do to keep her happy and keep her not thinking about killing herself? I'm so scared right now please help me! I rate High and leave comments too! (link)
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I know how you feel, I have had three friends cutting themselves, one didn't tell me about it and they commited suicide about a month ago. So now I am trying my hardest with my other two friends, I managed to stop one killing themself but i am always worried about him even now.
So my advice is this, when your friend is cutting herself, or even shortly afterwards. Sit down with them and talk.
Firstly, ask her why she is doing it..and don't settle for just a '' I am unhappy. Or I am miserable '' Poke deeper..ask why she is unhappy. If it is somthing serious like she is being raped/beaten by her step father ( Like with my friend) tell her you would do everything in your power to help her and keep it from happening again..if it is somthing in the matter of worry.
Such as, 'I am worried my girlfriend/boyfriend will leave me ' Reasure them that it should never happen to them because they are so special and important, and even if it did.. they shouldn't even consider killing themselves...as they are so important to you and so many other people..and they deserve more.
2) As that sinks in..tell her that you are incredibly worried about her and if she did you and everyone else would miss her...
That is all I can help you with at the moment..as her why she is doing that..and when you find out..if you want more help I can give you more advice..I've got experience with this type of thing
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I have chlostrophobia and my parents don't really know. Is this something i should ask my doctor about or is it just something normal?
Plz help. I keep having moments where i can't breath. (link)
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If you have chlostrophobia you should tell your parents. They can help you keep out of the mayjor conditions that can bring about a struggle to breathe and panic. Only some cases of Chlostrophobia bring about a difficulty to breathe, but that is often affected by being overheated. Do you have hayfever? I am chlostrophobic and I have hayfever and I somtimes struggle to breathe when outside, later I found out it was hayfever.If it is very difficult for you to cope with small spaces/being overheated ect. Then I advise you to ask a doctor aswell, they might be able to give you some information on it and if you do suffer breathing difficulties outside, give you an inhaler, to help loosen you chest and throat when a panic attack hits.
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