Member Since: December 20, 2005 Answers: 3 Last Update: December 23, 2005 Visitors: 1170
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ok so lately i've been trying really hard to be someone different. someone i'm not. look-wise, i've gotten preppier. but when i get on the computer sometimes, i'm all scene. i like to listen to techno music...a lot. but only my best friend knows about that. if everyone knew i listened to it, they would call me a poser. i've already had people call me a prep. but i'm really not. i hate makeup and hairspray. but then again, i love to feel like i look pretty even though i don't. people still see me as the over weight ugly girl that i really am. and i'm not some skinny girl saying i'm fat. i really am fat. i'm sorry this is so long but if you could please give me some advice, it would be greatly appreciated.
[[the desperate poser]] (link)
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Oh honey! Don't put yourself down! Just because you are built heavy doesn't mean people won't like you for you. I know school is difficult and other teens can be soooooo judgemental, but believe me, in the long run you have to be you. Who should like you most, a bunch of snotty ignorant preppie posers (cause they all are) or YOU! Like yourself, be yourself, find friends who like that person and screw the rest of Em!!!! I was a complete dork in highschool, now I'm still a dork but I love me! I found out that if I acted like myself that I had friends who liked me anyway and the other kids didn't mess with me cause I was confindently DORKY and proud lol. Just be yourself and No more Desperate Poser! ((((Hugs to you))))
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well when i was 13 i lost my virginety now im 14 because my birthday was in sep. i lost it in june, but anyways i need help i lost my virginty by an aciddent and it was so not ment to happen and now i think im pg but i have my period every month but my belly is looking pg but i took a pg test and it said negitive, so what is happening to my body i think my mom knows sum thing so what is wrong????
please answer me!!!!
~*~ Michelle ~*~ (link)
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Dear Michelle,
First and foremost as a mother of a 14 year old girl, honey, don't ever do that again! Boys at that age are not as mature as girls and they do not feel the same way after that you will. Secondly, if you had sex only once in June you would be almost 6 months pregnant, you would know! Do you feel baby kicking? If you are unsure go to planned parenthood or another free pregnancy crisis center in your area and get another test, some will do ultrasounds. If you don't want to tell your mom just say your going to a friends or something like that. If your mom can be trusted and won't bug out, tell her! Don't wait on this!
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so im 15, and i've been wearing tampons for quite a while now, and well ive never done this, but ive always wondered if you can pee while the tampon is still in you? because when i try to, it feels like its being pressured out, so i just take it out while i pee and just put a new tampon in.. (link)
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Dear 15,
Yes you can. Your urination area is a separate hole from your vaginal opening. Tampons feel like they are being forced out because you tend to tighten your muscles during urinating. I like to change every time I go pee just because it seems like a good idea
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