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When I had my last boyfriend everything would always go so great and after about 6 months we were both inlove and I really loved this guy! But then about 3 months later we were laying in his backyard in the hammock his arm was around me and we were just relaxing then i decided to put my hand on his chest and give him a kiss so i did and he pushed me out of the hammock smacked me and told me don't touch me so i ran away crying...i didn't talk to him for a couple weeks but he kept calling so i answered
~Convo~
me-what do you want?
him-im sorry i love you
me-too bad
and i hung up
then when my dog passed away he came over with flowers my mom didn't want him to come up to my room because i was really upset but she finally let him, then he started kissing me and telling me he was truley sorry so i forgave him and for about 3 more month it was all good and back to normal then again one night we were watching a movie in his basement (his parents weren't home only his bro and his gf) and we were all watching a movie and he kissed me and we started kissing then i put my hand on his cheek a little bit and he pushed away and was like dont ever do that again and threw the movie case at me and his brother tried to stop him but he just went mad at started punching me and his brother while his girlfriend tried to do somethin --im not really sure what--
So my question is I still love him, I know I shouldn't but I really love him I mean we have been together for about 2 years but stuff like this keeps randomly happening! I thought this guy was really right for me and sometimes he treats me really nice but others he hurts me phsically and mentally...I just want a guy to treat me right thats why Im trying to forgive him again but I can't just forgive and forget I'm scared something like this will happen again PLEASE help! (link)
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Are u blind or something! he has mental problems, duh.
he has needs anger managment, he has some sort of attacks. tell his borther and the gf, they saw him beatin u so they will help.
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hi well first of all i know some of you might think why in the world do you want to be a prep? and all that stuff but i dont care what you think if you are just going to like criticize me ok.
and people who are willing to help, how do i be like a prep?
i mean i know i kinda like talk like a prep and all that but i am Asian and stuff and i am not rich at all so i cant really go shopping at Holiaster and American Eagle outfitters and all that and this one person thought i looked like a devil worshiper. like what the heck! i am so not a devil worshiper... i mean i heard of someone telling me that i talk like a prep and everything but how do i really really look prep?
i really really need to be a prep...
its a survival of high school...and trust me, you dont know my school
i rate high for people who tries to help and if you mock me i report you and get you banned
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Hello, I'll try to get a fiew thing through your head. Prep is NOT about what you wear. Its a lifestyle. BUT - Just because you dont live in a mansion with a butler is doesnt mean you can't be pretty, popular & stylish. You do not HAVE to act preppy just to get through highschool because "You school has a huge judgment"
I would not adivise you to try to act preppy for reasons such as:
-People who aren't preps can spot fake preps easily.
-Real preps DO not like poser preps. ( This matters a lot because in order to get noticed you need the right croud..Preferablly true preps. If you had a crowd of posers you would be treated without respect, critisized & rejected.
There are MANY poser preps who want to become a prep, thinking it is just a style of clothing. So they go to A.E and Hollister because thats all they can afford and think that this will make them prep.
WRONG.
Hollister and A.E arent even what real preps wear! These stores are simply catogorized as "Prep Wear" by POSER PREPS, because they can't afford brands like Ralph Lauren and Lacoste..Etc.
Now, Back to your Question. A few guides on how to be "Prep" Or in this case, Being Popular and Pretty.
1# Preps normally have long straight hair, which they groom until it grows long and silky. Try going through magazines and look for some products which add shine and smell to your hair.
[Go through grooming pages on Google and make yourself gorgeous] ! The way to get you noticed is for you to find some new trends. If you see a new hair-dress by a DKNY backstage hairdresser - COPY IT and wear it for school !
Enough about Grooming, That is a MUST anytime, anywhere and no matter what you do.
2# Preps have class! If I were you I would purchase a book written by John Galliano and Camilla Morton called 'How to Walk In High Heels'
It is the girls guide book to everything. *Every prep has it, they just dont say it*
If It is too expensive for you no problem.. Just remember.. If you wish you feel High-Class just feel superior.
CLOTHES & MONEY!
Preps wear classy, good quality clothes.
The trick to that is simple. You just have to practise picking expensive-looking clothes from cheap shops!
OR
List through some magazines and see what Paris Hilton or any Fashion Icon is wearing, take the magazine with you to the cheap store and try a simliar outfit to hers. You might have to pop in to several shops. You don't have to exactly copy everything she is wearing, maybe just a simliar t-shirt.
OR
Since I dont know your financial problems, Im sure ones a month, or year you could pop into an expensive clothes store holding the fashion magazine, and pick out something else that one of the stars has! Like a Lacoste bag or something expensive depending on your style.
[Try to avoid A.E/Hollister, thats poser-prep clothes. Try to shop from a different store, If girls ask you where you got your clothes from, say something along these lines:
-My dad brought it from Italy..Do you like it?
OR
-It's this clothes store in Paris, I dont remember what Its called, Whatever. -Stick your tounge out- :P
Get the Idea?
SUGGESTION - Buy a designer bag, No matter how much money it costs, just buy SOMETHING with a Label on it like GUCCI, FENDI, DIOR anything!
[Even VERY GOOD Fakes]
3 Steps to being HIGH-CLASS!
PHYSICAL
-MANNERS MATTER! Table Etiquette.
-POSTURE! Join Ballet classes. They are posh and will help improve your High-Class confidence.
-NEVER TALK TO MUCH! LISTEN, THINK, SPEAK!
HANGOUT PLACES!
The Mall!? NO WAY.
POSER PREPS LOVE THE MALL - Because STEREOTYPICAL Preps go there.
Ok, The MALL Is OUT. [As a Hangout place]
Indulge yourself with a long 3 hour grooming session.
OR
Go to Classy Cafes and meet Classy people.
PREP IS ABOUT APPRECIATING WHAT YOU HAVE AND ENJOYING THE LIFESTYLE.
I HOPE I HELPED A LOT. GOOD LUCK :)
I don't like girls who "Want to be Prep and follow the Stereotype"
DONT.
BE REALISTIC. Please.
Love, Julielle.
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