Member Since: January 15, 2006
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Last Update: January 15, 2006
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15/f For the past 9 years i have been constantly bullied and since september 05 i have been homeschooled. the bullying was to much for me to handle it was literally every one! and no im not over reacting. if it was a few people i would of been able to deal with it but it was groups of people from each year in my school.
And i would sit in my classes with every one chanting names at me, dont get me wrong i often fired back with comments about there bad points but i felt so mean, im not the sort of person to bully or be nasty!
I was born with cleft lip and pallette and of course i had operations to correct it but i have a few scars and so on.
I used to get comments like.. fish lips, bulldog, lipricorn, half moon and so on and i still get them every now and again when i go out.
but now i have no friends what so ever except for the people i speak to online as all the friends i did have have now turned against me and joined in with the bullying!! YEH GREAT MATES RIGHT?? erm no.
The thing is i feel so ugly, i know im not ugly ugly but im not exactly pretty either and its getting me down! what can i do to give myself the confidence boost i need?
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First of all stop apologising. by doing that you are making people expect you to fail. Secondly you know your not ugly, and there is nothing wrong with being different. by not fitting in you stand out. it may sound simple and a bit silly but to get the confience boost you need look in the mirror every day and just look at your self.do this for a few minutes every day and after about a week before you walk away tell yourself you look fine. sounds simple but its effective. try it.
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alot has been going on around me. i'm really depressed. well last night i thought of cutting but i dont have the guts to do it. so instead with a pin i carved an X into my wrist. i feel so addicted i did it again this morning. i keep having these suicidal thoughts and i dont know whats wrong. my life is a mess. and i dont know what to do help? (link)
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It sounds like you fell you dont know how to deal with emotional pain so you make it physical. Although this may seem like its helping, it wont help in the long run. Next time you get one of these urges, try doing someting like excersing or painting. something that you can concerntrate on that will help pass the time and use the energy to create someting.
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