Member Since: November 26, 2007
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Last Update: November 26, 2007
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Alright, well this might seem a little strange but i think i MIGHT be deppressed, like when I'm with my friends I'm uswally very loud and happy. When I get home .. its just like wow. I get really sad and i want to cry but can't its really strange and i just dont know if i am or not !
please help thanks .
lalalindsay (link)
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Hey,
It's perfectly alright to be depressed. No, Really! You just have to accept that to be happy in life, sadness comes along with it. You need to be happy and sad to have a balanced life.
From what you are saying, it sounds like you depend on your friends for happiness. You need to find an ambition or a private life of your own.
Try this once: Just for a few minutes, try to detach yourself from the things and people that make you happy. Can't imagine life being sane without them huh? Well that's where the problem is. You need to make sure you're not too attached to anything or anyone.
You need to find something to do with your life. Maybe a hobby or an ambition. What makes you happy? Is it fashion? Do some research and pick up 'tips' online. You can even learn to sew on your own and make your own clothes. Just an idea.
What's your ambition? Is it being a CEO? Research on popular and successful business people and start doing what they did.
Sometimes, it just helps to cry. There was a time in my life where I was so scared of the future or so scared of being unsuccessful, that I would cry and cry and cry. And you know what? I felt wayyyyy better. I knew things could be worse.
So do what you feel like. But never ever depend on anyone for happiness. I hope I helped. Feel free to e-mail me if you want to be more specific of your problem. I think I can help.
clairehyd@gmail.com
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