Member Since: February 27, 2012
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We are so great together, but like all couples, we have minor issues. My boyfriend has a best friend(who i DO NOT like at all), and he seems to convince my boyfriend to do anything and everything. He pretty much is a BIG influence over him. Well his best friend moved somewhat far away, and everytime he comes and visits, my boyfriend ends up smoking weed with him. I dont preferably like that, i understand weed is not a big deal, but i dont prefer it in my house, or the one i love to do it or be around my family with it. Anyway, he does it everytime he comes and visits, and he always lies to me about it. i have to pry it out of him if he did anything. and one time he pinky promised me e would not but he did because his friends wouldnt leave him alone unless he did it. he hasnt done it in a long time, but when he mentioned his best friend is coming down in a week, i get mad, and scared and worried. he has such a big influence over him/ he reassures me he wont do it, but it happens everytime his friend is around. do you think im just being irrational and crazy over something so small? or should he just respect what i want? im confused, cause it bothers him when i act like this, but i cant help it. i just dont want it in our lives. should i just relax and get over this minor thing or talk and be more firm with him on the subject? any advice would be great! thank you! (link)
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i have talked to him about it, its just everytime his friend is down, he does it and lies about it. it makes me lose my trust, cause i know es gonna end up doing it with him, even though he already knows how i feel.
Razhie, he doesnt desire to do it. he doesnt do it any other time EXCEPT when his friend is around. im not going to break up with him, because of something so small. i just want to know if i should just let him do it and not care. Basically, just asking if im in the right, or im in the wrong? he doesnt do it on purpose, he ends up doing it because of his friend, any other time, he doesnt. it would make me feel better, if someone else gave their opinion on whether i should just compromise or keep bitching everytime it happens.
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