Member Since: September 25, 2004
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I wasn't sure what category to put this under by recently my girlfriend / best friend and I just lost our virginity to each other. It was amazing. But then the next night, I get a phone call from her brother saying to go the hospital because my girlfriend's just been raped...by her father. I didn't know what to do, so i just froze and went after her father. I beat the crap out of him and broke my hand. I know that wasn't smart but what he did to her was less smart. He's been abusing her since about the age of 4, I was one of the few people who knew this. She didn't want ANYONE telling the police because her father threatened her. And she didn't want to run away and leave her little sister with her father for fear he might hurt her too.
Well anyway, back on topic, her father went to jail and everyone testified against him. So he'll be in there for a LONG time. My problem is, my girlfriend is still in shock over this. We tried to have sex a few weeks later but she was so scared and still thinks about the rape. I'm not frustrated about the no-sex part AT ALL believe me. But what I'm wondering is if there's anything I can do for her to make her get over this. I want her to be happy again. I love her with all my heart and hate seeing her like this.
Any girls who have been raped, you could probably help me most on this. How did you get over it? Thanks SO much! (link)
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Trust me im a girl and we are emotional! dont try to have sex with her right after all this! just talk to her and be there for her and tell her its all right and that you dont have to worry about him hurting her anymore because hes in jail! just make her feel protected! this is a biiig deal and wait MORE than just a couple of weeks to try to have sex! actually you would have to wait more like a couple of months and let her make the desision of when she wants to, dont rush her! I would say dont have sex till ur married, but its ur life not mine. Hope i helped!
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