I love to help people. My Friends always come to me when they need help because i give good advice and i don't tell anyone about what we talked about. I always try to help people no matter what. I put my family and freinds before myself always.
Gender: Female
Age: 13
AIM: xoblondiexo1434e
Member Since: January 5, 2005
Answers: 4
Last Update: January 6, 2005
Visitors: 628
|
| |
|
Okay this is kind of a gross question.. but i'd like it know.. like when does someone finger you? like are u having sex, or just sitting there.. or something else yeah im really clueless on this whole thing... some people in my grade have been fingered and i'd just like to know what it is... thanks lol (link)
| |
You can be fingered before sex after sex or when your not even going to have sex. If people in your grade are being fingered don't be pressured into doing it. But if you are going to do it make sure it is with someone you trust. You might feel aquward the first time you get fingered alot of people do but it's ok if you dont want to do it again dont let nyone pressure you.
|
|
Sorry about the lenth. Anyways, my boyfriend and me started having sex last Augest. (i'm 17/f) and my mom found out a couple of monthes after, and she found out we weren't using condoms and such ... anyways, ever since she keeps blackmailing me. If I don't do this for her or kiss her ass for the rest of my life she'll tell his parents everything ... and he'll get sent away. We love each other to death, but if we were seperated I don't know what I would do. This blackmail stuff is really getting to me ... i get all stressed out by it and depressed. Really depressed. Please help, i rate high (link)
| |
Happy early birtday! I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. My friend jsut went through a similar situation. I'm gald to hear that you and your b/f are in love and happy but having unprotected sex is not safe. If you guys don't like to use condoms there is always the pill whichh is just as effective. Both of you should get tested for Aids and other STD's before having sex again. As for your mom she doesn't seem to be so happy if she is threatning you and your boyfriends relationship. Sit your mom down and talk to her and if that doesn't work go to your boyfreinds parents and either tell them the truth or tell them that your mom has jumped to conclusions and is threatning you guys. If you are seriosuly depressed go see a doctor, depression is serious my aunt was depressed for a very long time and was never happy finally we convinced her to go see a doctor she did and tooke medicine for a while and is now happier than she has ever been in her life. IF the talks dont work out with ur mom email me at my column and i'll help with another solution. Good luck and i hope everything works out great for you.
|
|
I haven't seen my mother for 9 years, I'm 14. She's been on methampthetamines my entire life. I just got word today of where she is, I talked to her about 3 years ago. I need to go see her so that I can get over the fact that she will never be my mom. I just need some advice on what to say to her, and I really want to tell her to stop doing methampthetamines. I know that I won't be able to help her, but I just need some advice on how to deal with the fact that I will never have her as my mom, and that I will never be able to help her. I know it's hard to answer, but please, if anyone can help me. The pressure is too much, I'm seeing her this weekend. Please help me. I have no one else to turn to. (link)
| |
I think you should tell her how you feel about her use of methampthetamines, but you should be rashional why you tell her. Use the time that you have w/ her this weekend to talk about your life what is new with you, how you feel about her being gone, and if you want to change your communication w/ her. They have alot of support gruops that you can go to and talk to people about situations that get to stressful to deal with. Try going to a YMCA near you they have alot of support groups and they really help. Good luck with visiting your mom and remember to be rashtional while talking to her.
|
|
my boyfriend of 6 months didnt call me for 2 days, and in that time it was the anniversary of my bestfriends death, i found out my grandma was dyin, my parents fought n my mum left, n i ran away.. i really wanted to speak to him in those 2 days and when i finally called him he said he had simply been too busy to call so i overeacted n dumped him, i regretted it and told him the reason why i overeacted and he didnt care.. should i get back wit him because i overeacted.. or shouldnt i because he wasnt there when i needed him (link)
| |
You have a right to be mad. Those are serious, emotional situations and you needed him. I am very sorry to hear about those events that occured in those two days of you life. If your boyfriend wasn't there for you then and didn't understand how much you needed him no matter how busy he was will he be there for you when you need him again? I think you reaction was fine for the situatuion. However I don't think you should get back together with him he doesn't seem deserving. If you were meant to be together you will be.
|
|