Member Since: February 6, 2005
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Last Update: February 6, 2005
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Yesterday I saw my friend smoking, so today I hoped to stop her from getting addicted or doing it again. I asked her if she tried smoking yesterday (rumours were going round she had too) and she acted as if it was a joke, said no and kept trying to change the conversation. I know she has told other friends. However, she does know I am strongly against smoking and she has in the past told me that she was too. How will I get her to terms with what she has done and stop her from ever doing it again? She seems to ruin her life at any opportunity- in the past she has been a cutter, anorexic and bullimic. Please help! (link)
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As a smoker myself (definately not a t 12, though), I must say, I wish that I didn't smoke! Let her know that it is very unattractive! Many guys are turned off by smokers, especially as you get older. Also, the longer you smoke, the harder it is to quite! I quit for almost a year (when I found out I was pregnant I stopped right away), but when I went back to work after having him, I started again. Tell her you care about her and she only making her life shorter by smoking. Don't give up on her, though, that's the worst thing to do!!
Bridgett
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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne (link)
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This is hard, and anyone that is not a parent themselves really shouldn't be answering this question, so ignore all the rude comments that some people have posted, they have NO idea how hard it is. You need to talk to both your son and the girl together. Sit them down and explain why you are so upset. He may not understand what the big deal is. Explain to him that sex is sex, whether it's penetration or oral sex. H ecan still get diseases from oral sex, and eventually, the oral sex is going to lead to penetration. Tell him all the stresses of being a parent and ask him what he would do if he had gotten that young girl pregnant. Really, make him face reality. He DOES need to be punished. How is up to you. I know this is probably very hard for you, and I know that it's hard for a working mom to be around her son 24/7. Good Luck!
Bridgett
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well i have naturally kinda sraight hair, but i straigten it if its now curly, but i really want curly hair, and i already got a perm one time and its just too much so i dont wanna get that again, and so what i do is i get out of the shower and twist my hair up and put it in a clip, then i take it out a few mins after and spray some hair spray on it so it stays and its fine, what are other ways to make your hair curly? and also i have a curling iron but i dont know how to do my hair with it haha, my friend can do it but i just cant seem to get the hang of it! please help *xoOx (link)
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Get a defuser. You can find them at Wal-Mart or target. They attach to the end of your blow dryer. When you get out of the shower, flip your head over and use gel to scrunch your hair. Then, use the defuser until your hair is about 3/4 dry. Stop drying it, then flip your head back over and use some mouse. Finish drying your hair with the defuser, then spray it with spray gel, then use the defuser one last time. My hiar is naturally strait (I mean REALLY strait), and this works every time!
Bridgett
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