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HELLO :]. My name is Kayla & I'm 18 years old. I love the BEACH, tanning, shopping,taking pictures, jet-skiing, boating, tubing, going to the movies & out to eat, getting my hair & nails done, swimming, partying and my amazingly WONDERFUL boyfriend of 3 years :]. Ask me anything & I'll try to give you the best answer/advice that I can! :].

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14/f

well i want to shave my legs for the first time. and i was wondering if it is possible to use an electrical shaver...

will it hurt me?!!

are there any side affects??!!

thnx.lots.

if it's for guys then don't use it. i use VENUS the pink vibrating one because it gets up close to your skin to get every hair. it works really well. hope i helped :]

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I need some hair/makeup tips for the begging of school!

Okayy, I have very very light tanned skin, and i have little freckles on my face that aren't that noticable to some people but to me i can see them so well and a few zits. i have brown eyes and dirty blonde hair. my hair is always frizzy any products i can use? and what things could i use on my skin so the zits and everything aren't noticeable, and what eye shadow should a brown-eyed blonde use? Anything helps! i will send feedback!

try using outshine anti frizz polishing milk by redken. it works really well.. you just put that in after you get out of the shower & blow dry it. then style it however you'd like. :] i have blonde hair & brown eyes like you & i use MAC make up. i take a shimmery white eyeshawdow and spread it by the brow bone, then i take a light brown eyeshawdow and cover the rest of the eyelid with it that isnt already covered by the shimmer. &&&& finally i come in with a darker brown eyeshadow and start from the end of the eye and work my way into the crease & stop half way. afterwards, i just blend it all in & it looks really pretty! :] & as for your freckles/zits. if you want a little foundation or powder but not too much coverage, the mineral powder/foundation by MAC is extremely good & it has more of a natural look to it! if you need anything else, feel free to ask me sweetheart. hope i helped :]

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I've been with my boyfriend for over a year.. but when i call another guy i talk to, my heart absolutely pounds out of my chest! and i get really nervous! why is this?

well, when you talk to another guy & your heart pounds out of your chest & you get REALLY REALLY nervous .. that's a sign of you having feelings for the guy that you talk to on the phone. maybe because lately your boyfriend hasn't been treating you like you deserve & you have been drifting away for someone else. & it's completely normal to fall for someone else while you're in a relationship. good luck sweetheart :]

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i'm 17/f. if i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for a long time, is it cheating if i hold hands with another boy?

i think it is considered cheating, because you would have to have some kind of feelings for him in order to hold his hand. try putting yourself in your boyfriends situation if you saw that he was holding hands with another girl, how would you feel? would you consider it cheating? or would you be perfectly okay with it? hopefully i helped you sweetheart! :]

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I'm not really sure if this goes here, but it seems most suitable.

Everytime I wear eyeliner on the lower eyelid it smudges like crazy. I don't think it's because of sweat because well it says waterproof, and on other people even when they do, it doesn't smudge.

How can I fix this without leaving the lower lid un-eyelinered. Does darker eyeshadow work better?

try using MAC waterproof eyeliner.
it's works really well & i've never had a problem with it & i've been using it for almost 2 years! :]

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do side bangs work better when they are long or short? i have side bangs, and they're getting a bit long, but i dont know if i should cut them. usually i cut them, but kind of in the middle of long and short.

also, how can i make them stay to one side? i've tried the whole clipping them to the side for a while to "train" them to stay over, but it doesnt work. ive had them for a longggggg time, and towards the middle of the day, half of them start drifting over to the other side, and i hateee it. i've tried hairspray, but i cant find a happy medium between making them stay and having them rock hard and not being able to move.

thanks!

well you could try doing the short bangs like i have in my picture. & i just use redken paste & a hair straightener for my bangs. :] it's really cute.

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just like any ...friends... or a romantic one..

I'm considering one.. and I need opinions..

what do YOU think of online relationships?

I think that It'll be hard to have an on-line relationship because you'll never see each other and you'll never be able to hang out & do all the sweet stuff, like hugging, kissing, holding hands & going to the movies, etc. BUT, if you've met in the past and he's just moving away ... It COULD work, I'm not sure anything is possible! :]

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I know this sounds totally stupid, and i feel like really dumb for saying this but whatever, okay so im like a 34a getting to a b-cup but i don't have clevege, how can i do this? people joke around with me sometimes, and then i see other girls who have it, how do they do it? and dont say like "you dont need to" or anything, is it a push-up bra or something? tape? or i have no idea. but help, because my friends need this to haha. [[ also i have no idea what catagorey to put this in ]]

push up bras are the ones that make you have cleavage &&& victoria secret has the best ones! they're only like 30 dollars :]

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how should i feel when i see some1 who broke my heart after 3yrs? When i saw him today i wanted to throw up and cry. should i feel that way? it's just that after seein him maid me mad and sad it's a hard to see him it makes me really angry. he didn't even give me a reason when he broke up with me. it really fuckin sucks. i hurts like hell too. some1 tell me how i should deal with this. PLEASE. THKS

If he didn't really give you a reason & you really want to know.. try talking to him. :].
But, I think you should just move on, because if he's going to break your heart & not give you a reason he wasn't the right guy for you. & I bet you're still young & beautiful that you can find someone else that's probably 100x better than him! :].

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