Hi This is Franckie alittle about me...
I'm a highschool Graduate that has had her ups and downs over the years and experienced some very joyful things and some very horrible things,but the worst is over with :) and i am very happy.
Me and my boyfriend Cody both get on here so we can read and give advice from different perspectives.
I'm not here to tell you what you want to hear.
I get straight to the point and tell you how it is and be honest about it.
You may not like it but thats why you came here,So express and ask what you need help with and I'll answer honestly and quickly as possible.
so just ask Franckie
or just ask Cody
-Franckie
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How long do hickeys last? I mean like on average? Have you had a hickey? How long did it take before it was safe to show your neck around your mom and dad? LOL! (link)
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Well base it on the the color if you really want
to know that bad. Its a bruise under your skin.
The darker it is the longer it will come to heal.
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my mom tends to focus her attention on my brother
who is a 2nd year univ student but still acts like a kid
its always been like that, and its bothering me more and more.
my mom and ive always been really close
and ive done whatever i could to try to make her as happy as possible because she's just been through so much
im always looking out for her needs;
simply cus i love her to death
its just that she seems to not notice any of the things i do for her but instead lets her anger out on me all the time.
if she's in a bad mood, she would let it out on me
and never my brother who doesn't even acknowledges us as his family anymore
if my brother were to do one hundredth of what I do for her, she'd be beaming
but no matter how much I do, it just doens't seem to matter to her at all.
i know im coming off very dramatic, stupid, and desperate for attention. but i'm not trying to be the model daughter for things in return; i'm trying to be the model daughter for my mom to be a little more happy and not be yelled at for it.
i dont know how to act anymore around mom, i love doing things for her but lately i just don't see the point anymore if she's gonna yell at me all the time.
i've experienced this for my entire life and lately i'm growing sick of it.
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Like you said you and your mom are really close;
so to say like best friends,a very strong mother and daughter relationship.
With the stress that your brother puts on your mother, your mother lets it out on the person she can trust, rely on and won't think different of her which is you.
Why don't you sit down with her an express how you feel. It won't hurt but to try. It will open a door and she will see.
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19/female. i've known this guy for like .. 5 years now. i've always had a crush on him and i think he's an absolute babe ;) we call each other "best friends" just because thats what we call each other hahaa. basically, we are though. when we're alone .. its kind of awkward. if we're not flirting it's basically silent because i don't know what to say. then i'll randomly say something and feel dumb. when we're hanging out with a group of people i'm so quiet. i'm usually a crazy girl .. the wild one of my group of friends but not around him .. noooo! i'm the shy, quiet, never know what to say girl. and i can't look at him in the eyes .. i feel like if i look at him he'll be looking at all my imperfections i'm so insecure about. how can i just be myself around him? i always freeze up and never know what to say! :( (link)
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Guys' point of view...
you should just tell him how you feel, he probably feels the same way but he is afraid that if he says somethin that it would change your guys' friendship. if you don't and you lose him as a friend or as a boyfriend then you will probably regret it
girls' point of view...
show him how you really are be yourself.
then maybe when you guys are alone you can laugh about the crazy times you had together.. from there it will open up so many other doors from what you guys could do next and that kind of stuff and not so quiet and make it feel awkward. you never no maybe he is thinking the opposite when he looks at you see's what nobody else can see. the great stuff about you .. just try
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