Member Since: February 8, 2015
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Last Update: February 8, 2015
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I've been with my boyfriend going on two years now and everything was fine until recently. I am just absolutely bored with him and am wondering if I am with the right person. Recently we had to move back in with my mom because I wrecked his car and we can't afford to live on our own now or buy a car. So we're trying to save up for one. Problem being with that, My mom and my boyfriend don't get along too well. She basically is lonely ever since her recent divorce with my stepdad and wants me to live with her it seems like forever. She Drives him and me to work and stuff. But we haven't gone out and done something fun together in a long time because since its mom's car she makes the rules about me and him going anywhere. We're always at the house now. Not only that we fight because of our mom's. It seems our mom's get jealous when we're spending time with oneanother. My mom isn't so mean to him she just gets mad at me if I don't give her attention and takes it out on me. His mom calls me vulgar names and tells him I can't come home with him when he goes to visit his family and I've always been polite. I feel like maybe the stress of our mom's is making me feel this way and the fact that we haven't been in a date since the accident in November is pulling us apart. I don't know what to do. I think I'm just scared of dealing with his mom (who is very abusive) and my mom (who's smothering) . I love him but I feel bored and am wondering if we should call it quits or not. (link)
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I live at home with my boyfriend and my mother. She is a light version of your mom. Being out in your own place might be the best for your relationship. However that might not be possible right now. I suggest talking to your boyfriend and see how he feels about both the relationship and your living situation. You say you feel 'bored'. I would examine if that is about your guy or the situation you are currently living. Ask yourself if you could spend a lifetime with this guy. Do you see yourself committed to him long term? Maybe a break would be good now. See how you feel about him if you live apart. That might not be possible if you support each other financially but better to figure that out now. Longer term relationships have ups and down. It's no fairy tale I know. I've had ups and downs but overall we take care and love each other. If you find overall you are unhappy maybe you should explore being single or dating other people. I don't think there is one person for everyone but many people who can love you for you. I wish you the best.
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