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Heyy!! I'm Katie.. but you can call me Kat. I love music and poetry because they are my life. I've always been quiet unless I am with my close friends then I can be loud and crazy! Anyways, my friends have told me I give good advice, and I like to help people, so I decided to start one of these. One day I hope to go into teaching or social working. I love being able to make a difference in people's lives, so if you need any advice, please feel free to ask!

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Age: 14
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Member Since: August 15, 2006
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Last Update: October 8, 2006
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How do I bring up the questin of Will you go out with me? in a conversation?

take it slow. and relax. get up enough courage and ask. it can't be as hard as it seems. say something like "i've liked you for a while. i was wondering would you go out with me" he should say yes if he feels the same. :)

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my best friend is satrting to ditxh me 4 the popular croud she tolltaly xnors me at scholl but wen shes over at my house and wer on the phone its like wer bffs agian wat should i do please help!

tell her your feelings! it wont help if they are all bottled up inside. i feel it would make you feel better if you just told her. i hope everything works out. :)

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yeah i am 12 and like all of my friends have had a boyfriend but me.i mean i went out with this one guy for a day but that doesn't count..&& i am always going threw the drama of my friends and their boyfriends..like my friend will say that she is in love with her boyfriend and that she wants her first kiss with him and stuff but i just sometimes want that to be me saying that a guy to love to hod hands with and stuff like that..well idk i am just afriad that i won't have my first kiss till i am like 20..what should i do?

don't worry about getting your first kiss. you don't want the guy to be a complete jerk. so dont rush it. good things come to those who wait. woah i sound like a cookie thing! lol anyways just relax. trying hooking up with a total cutie and get to know him and if the time is right you will have your first kiss!

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me and my boyfriend talk a whole lot on the phone and stuff but we never talk at school.what should i do??

try talking to him in school. or confront him about it. say something like "we always talk on the phone but never in school why is that" i don't really know.. do his friends have anything to about him not talking? cause that maybe it too. i really dont know what to tell you but i hope i helped. :)

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i really like this guy but i just found out he's a pothead. and my attitude toward it is that if he isnt high around me and just decides to keep it to himself [i heard it from his friend not him but i had already suspected] then i dont care. but it does really bother me that he'd lie to me about it and tell me that he's only tried it a few times over the summer, plus just the fact that he does smoke pot! should i stop talking to him or just act like i dont know and keep going with my "ask no questions" charade?

ask questions! make him tell you the truth!

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do u love me......i need to know.....because i think i love u......ur smart and pretty and u give really good advice!!!! Please answer me as soon as possible!

um who is this?

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I have zits on my forehead, nose, and chin. It's really affecting how people at school treat me. They stare at my face instead of listening to what i'm saying! I don't know what to do. Please help! I 've tried tons of medications like Proactive Solution, but they don't seem to work.

Everyone has problems with pimples and zits. And I think if people are treating you different then they are just insucure(sp) with themselves or they just are rude! With my face I use a daily wash. I use 'Clearasil Daily Face Wash". I don't know if you have tried it, but it says it clears your skin in 3 days.. well not really. But it treats it so your pours are smaller and your pimples/zits are less noticeable. And it keeps your skin oil free. I have tried alot of products myself and this stuff works wonders! I am sorry I answered slow, but thanks for the question. Let me know if it helps. :)

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i have a problem my mom hates me and i feel like running away my dad also hates me and that doesnt make it any better so what do i do do i run away or do i stay where i am

i am sure your mom doesn't hate you and i am sure your dad doesn't hate you. don't run away cause then where are you gonna go? i mean don't cause then you are gonna have everyone worried and that is not good. just relax and do what your parents want you to.. maybe they will lighten up. well i really hope i helped :) love kat!

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hey i have a problem i lik this grl and my best friend likes her but he doesnt think i no and he asks her out right after me and she says yes to him shoul i go do something about it or wht im confused

i think you should mm see how it works out with your friend and this girl. i mean do you think he is gonna hurt her or something. maybe you should wait and see how it works out for them cause you never really know. i hope i helped :) thanks for the message.

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there's this guy i like him he likes me i have a feeling i might have my FIRST kiss with him and tips.

Just relax. If you are worried about bad breath or anything really quick have a tic tac. But for this first kiss you should put your arms arounds his neck. But the key thing is relax. Good luck with that first kiss and I hope I helped (:

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On Tuesday, IM GETTING BRACES! Im soo freaked out that they are going to look hideous! I just need some advice on how be less scared...and any idea on what colors I should get?

Don't worry everything will be fine. Are you worried your friends will treat you different? and if they do that is messed up. Um I heard like a dark blue and red look good..? but really colors are up to you. Just relax and everything will be okay. Well I hope I helped. Thanks for the question (:

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how do you know when your depressed

You tend to zone everyone out and you have trouble focusing on things. And sometimes you just want to be alone 24/7. You stop things you usually do. Um to get out.. find out something new you like to do and focus on that. Pheraps that will help. Okay thanks. (: and Hope I helped

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heyy advive lady well i have this friend her and i we were best friends since kindergarden and then like 2 years everything changed she meet this boy that she fell madly in love with and then she got her lincense and is now always with this kid and when ever i wanna hang out with her she cant and when she wants to hang out with me its usually a bad time and she thinks i make excuses to avoid her but i really idk understand her but my question is do u think there is a point in saving this friendship or should i just stop talking to her all together

Just tell her the truth about everything. Don't just drop her as a friend cause what is that going to solve.. Nothing. So just tell her you feel like you have become like a third wheel or something. But all you can really do is be honest with your friend. Thanks for the question. And hope I helped (:

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omg school is gonna start soon and im sooo scared!!! idk if im gonna have classes with ne of my friends....:( and i think i will be lost too and yea if you knew me *wink wink* you would think i would absolutely get lost.. what do i do??

from the one that will get lost
thanks.

Hey trust me.. I am scared too. I want classes with my friends. All you can do is hope for the best. And hey if the office has maps go on ahead and get one. And I am sure if you do get lost teachers and older students can help you and point you in the right direction. Well I hope I helped. Good luck and hope you get classes with your friends :)

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So, my school is sort of small, and almost no one has been kissed (or at least my friends) but I feel like I'll be a complete retard if I'm not kissed this year!
And, I want to be kissed.. but I want it to be somebody I like. But, what if I don't get kissed until I'm, like, 17?!! I'm worried.

Just relax. Many people I know still haven't had there first kiss. Yes, the moment you will always remember.. but you should wait until the time is right. And don't feel bad either. When the time is right it will happen. So don't sweat it. Thanks for the question. Hope I helped (:

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Ok i am in high school already and i havent had a boyfriend in my whole life!!! I dont kno wat to do cuz i really want a boyfriend.....im not desperate but i dont even kno of ne guys that like me at my school! My friends all reasure me that the right guy will come but im not so sure!
Half of my friends all talk about how their boyfriends do the most romantic and sweet things for them and it makes me upset because i dont have a guy that is crazy about me or that will do sweet things for me!!!! WAT SHOULD I DO??????

Well first off.. I am sure you are pretty. And you have alot of good things going for you. You're friends are right about that though. The right guy will come in time. Don't stress yourself out over it. I mean realitionshipes are even harder to deal with then dealing with the pressure of being single. Try to start a converation with a boy you are crushing on and then act natural. Just don't be like preppy and perky cause guys hate that. So just be yourself and relax. Take it slow. Hope I helped you out. Let me know who things go. And thanks for the question. (:

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I think I'm fat.. what should I do?
I want to go on a diet, but I don't think it'll work.. GAH.

Odds are you are not fat. And if you don't think a diet will work maybe you should try eating healther or working out. tryout for a sport or jog around your block. Just don't do anything stupid like anorexia or bulimia.. they will only lead you don't a bad life path. Well I really hope I helpd. Thanks for the question (:

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I'm on a sports team at my school and, I guess I'm pretty good. I've gone to a lot of sports camps and stuff over the summer which has helped a lot.
And, there's some girls on the team who don't take it a seriously and it really makes me mad. They'll screw off and invite these absolutely STUPID guys to the practice and totally just flirt with them the entire time, when they should really be working on their game. I'm afraid our whole team is going to go up in smokes..
Do you have any ideas on how I can make them practice but not seem too harsh?

Maybe tell them how you are feeling or say something like 'hey i think we should practice. i mean after all we need to.' Um not really sure but just try talking and if that doesn't work try to talk to your coach. I am sure they will do something about it. Well I hope I helped. Thanks for the question (:

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Ok well ever since the beggining of last year ive noticed that i sweat...alot. ANd i mean i have these huge swaet marks under my arms. And now my back is starting to sweat alot to. And i mean its embarrising to have sweat marks. Do you think its just genetics? Or is it something else?

Well I am really not sure. It may very well be genetics. I would ask your parents about it. No one can be sure what it really is but just ask your parents and then you may know, if not message me again. I hope I helped. Thanks for the question :)

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I laugh too much - is this a good thing or a bad thing? Do you think that if I laugh too much my friends think I'm obnoxious? I JUST CAN'T HELP IT! Nyahahahah! :P

Hey! Laughing is better then crying or being depressed or anything else. I highly doubt you are obnoxious because I am always laughing with one of my best friend, Natalie. So if laughing is a bad thing then arrest me cause I always laugh. Just tell your friends * You are adding years to your life. Cause everytime you laugh you gain 5 seconds to your life.. so laugh until you cry and get side cramps. Well thanks for the question (: Hope I helped you!

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