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Hey y'all! My name's Alyssa I'm 15 years-old and I live in Quartz Hill, California! I just moved out here from North Carolina and if you need anything just ask away!
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14/f. I have a friend, Monica, who has really become somewhat of a whore in my opinion. She was going out with this one guy, Mike, and went to homecoming with him. Then a few days ago when we took a field trip she got all cuddly and mushy and kissy (I assume) with Jake. She hasn't told me that her and Mike have broken up and it doesn't seem like they have, but at the same time she is walking down the hall holding hands and with her arms around Jake. They have only been like this for about 3 days! I think she is cheating, but when I asked what happened to Mike, she just said "Geez we're not married!" What should I do? She never used to be like this and I never would have thought she would do anything like this.
I don't think she is a whore just b/c she is cheating on a guy, but she is doing something pretty bad. I think you should talk to Mike and ask how Monica and him are, see his reaction and what he says. They maybe over, or they may not. If they aren't I would sit Monica down and talk about it! I would also tell Mike about what is going on (not behind her back! Tell her first!)Hope I helped!
My friend Alyssa is so cool and funny, and at a party she didn't go to the gurl called her and asked why she wasn't there, she said the she was grouned (a lie she doens't really like the gurl) so the gurl was like, you hate me don't you, so now she keeps saying how she doesn't have friends when everyone is alyssa's friend! So my other friend is having a party that alyssa is invited to and everyone is like, you really hate her, right? NO! what should i say to these ppl, and alyssa?
Tell them that its not fair to leave her out, try and find out why Alyssa "hates" her and straighten them out if you do that then maybe tehy could actually get along! Or at least be in the same room/party together! Hope I helped!
i feel bad for my friend people are giving her a hard time and calling her poor even though she isnt even near poor. so i try cheering her up but it isnt working anymore i dont know wut to do someone if yuo have any ideas pleas tell mah
Tell the people to shove it! (lol, don't really do it) but tell them that she isn't close to being poor at all and that she is a good person no matter how much money she has, maybe if you stick up for her and tell the people who are teasing her what you feel it can sheer her up, knowing that you really really do care!
I really need your help so please do not delete this.
Ok, I have been dancing for 8 years. I am known for dancing by friends, family, and neighbors. This year, I hate it! I dread it. I mean I whine to try and stay home. ONce I get there it isn't that bad, but I still hate it. Well, I costs my family ALOT of money so I can dance. They have to pay like 100 dollars a week practically. My mom thinks I should quit and she said I could, I mean I don't like dance so I am bascially wasting all our money. There are reasons why I wnat to stick with it, one of them being my friends there and I'm almost all the way down to my split, and you obviously know why I may quit. I am on the Field Hockey Team at school and love it. Please help me, should I quit? Would you quit? Thanks a million!
Sorry it was a bit long.
I think you should quit if you really want to! If you aren't enjoying it why do it? Tell your parents you don't like it anymore and that they are just wasting their money! If people ask you why you quit just tell them that you are into Feild Hockey and not dance anymore! They should understand! :)
Hello. My best friend has been with this guy for a year and a half. They got their own apartment together in the beginning of September. I am not crazy about her being with him because he is lazy and overweight, and anti-social. My problem is that I am afraid my friend is going to turn this way too now. She used to be so much fun. They always have their shades drawn and they never want anyone over they say they are sleeping. I am afraid I am going to lose my best friend to a boring life of nothingness. I know it's getting to be winter/hybernation time, and they just moved in together not too long ago, but I also know what type of person this boy is and he is just going to influence her to shut out the world like he always has. I think she thought he was a different person when they first went out and she may be too attached to ever get out of it now. She gets obsessively attached to things and I'm afraid she is going to miss out on life for a while and I'm going to miss her, because "my friend is sleeping." Thank you to whomever answers.
Okay, well I think you should either talk to her about it or suprise her and do something FuN! Make it a day out just for y'all and talk to her then. If she really is in denial tell her examples of how you have been left out! But what ever you do don't blame it on her boyfriend! :)