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hey yall im chelsea, sorry this wasnt working for a couple months but if you have any questions or just want to talk feel free to ask and i will try and answer it as soon as possible!
Gender: Female
Location: the lone star state(=
Occupation: superstar
Age: 14
AIM: notlabledasavrge
Member Since: February 20, 2005
Answers: 107
Last Update: January 10, 2006
Visitors: 5256


so me and this girl used to be like best friends but as we got older and got into high school we like idk, drifted apart. were like not as close as we used to be coz we are both soo differnt, like shes really into church and that kind of thing and im more like into parting and stuff, but i still want to be friends with her, soo what do you think i should do? (link)
figure out why you are drifting apart, a good part of it could be that maybe she isnt into partying, and just because you maybe dont hang out as much doesnt mean your not friends...im kind of in the same situation with some and i agree its hard to kind of relate if your into something else, but we all are different so try inviteing her to do something besides going to parties or go to church things with her...and it does suck because high school really limits your friends. hope i helped!


i want to start going to church and i know you do so what one do you suggest and where do you go and what do you like about it??? (link)
well it depends...my church is non-dominational(austin Christian Fellowship) and i absolutely love it, just because the people are so friendly and...i dno i just really like it, but it really depends on what domination you want to be.


i want a bf. i like this guy. i dont think he likes me. im too afraid to tell him cause it would be weird. :( i don't know what to do (link)
yah dont just go up to him and tell him that would be awkward, for you and him. Give him signals...like sit by him at lunch and start talking to him more maybe he will get the hint...hope i helped, tell me how thing work out!(=


my sister is starting to get hooked on smokeing and durgs do i tell my mom or just live w/ it? (link)
oh mann...i know how you feel....my sister didnt do drugs but started hanging out with the wrong group of people and could of easily did sumthin like that...but as hard as it is i think you need to tell your mom or else you sister could end up in jail...its hard to tell on them though just because you dont wanna get her in trouble or mad at you but believe me it will be worth it...tell me how things work out...sorry


ok so i play volleyball and my coach always gets mad at me and this other girl because were always having fun, and making volleyball fun. we even made our coach sorta nice, insted of mean. but like were bff's and we just have a laughing problem that whenever we look at eachother, we laugh. so then our coach sends the two "team capitans" to talk to us and we were still laughing, but really really mad. has this ever happend to you? what do i do? should i not be friends with my bff? (link)
oh my gosh that always happens to me!Like my friend will blink and it will be like the funniest thing in the world!tell the two team captins that you cant stop...you have tried but it is impossible because it so totally is!and DONT no be friends with that person cause yall have a good time!that what i look for in a friend...someone to have a good time with!tell em how everything works out!=D


hey girl i was looking on this and all the comments and i saw someone was making fun of you for being a "God like" person and i was a freshman this year at cphs and these guys in my spanish class would always make fun of me and say how do you know god is there and what if your wasting ur whole life on him? and yah i know what your going through so stay strong and keep with your faith im sure it will pay off in the long run! and this is an awesome site by the way! (link)
oh my gosh thank you so much!believe me i wouldnt just drop everything i believe in for some person who has nothin better to do than try to make people feel bad about what they choose to believe in.but thank you so much!=D


Ok seriously this is no JOKE i'm serious bout this question i'm not just another one of those gay ppl talking bout other ppl this is real...OK like even when i'm just standing there i sweat and it always goes thorugh my clothes even thick shirts and its really annoying and werid!! i just don't know what to do at this point......... (link)
sometimes you may be making yourself even more hot by wearing thick clothes or there could be liek sumthin wrong so you might wanna liek tell ur mom or sumthin and then also there are these shirts that are made by nike and the r like absolutely sweat proof!and there is nothin wrong with you...everyone sweats!


hey chels, i have a problem. ok i like this guy and i have liked him since idk..forever. well, i have toold him that i liked him and we have still remained close and all but hes now going out with a complete poser who tries to push me away fromm him, even if im just standing there not doing anything! idk it just hurts a whole bunch. i really want to see him over the summer, but she'll prbly be hanging all over him and i just dont want to deal with that! please help me! (link)
it sounds like she is really mean and you should not fall into what she is trying to do to you.If you and him are really close he will want to hang out with you!and sence you already told ihm you liek him there is not much more you can do....obiously he knows and hopefully he will sometime see the girl you are seeing in his gf and realize your the better person.


you seem really.....like god related...it kinda makes you seem kinda goody goody cause i guess you have like "morals" is what you call them.I think your really pretty but if you would just like not be so "god like" then you would be even cooler:) (link)
uh...im sorry im not a whore and have sex at 13.....and yes that is a "moral"...and i could care less if you think im too god related....i look at it as a good thing....but the only times i am "god like" is on sundyas for church and wednesday for core group so i dno why u tihnk i would be "cooler" if i wasnt "god like"hah....maybe its because im christian....?


whats up....you havent been acting like your always happy self lately...whats wrong:/ (link)
ummm...nothing really things have just been crazy lately


i cant wait to go to HS next year with you!and some of the people from CR too!woo woo GO TIMBERWOLVES! (link)
heck yess!!!


your ahir always looks so good!what...
hair straghtner do you use
curler do you use
shampoo
conditioner
and anyother stuff you use...lol
o yea and what face stuff do u use??haha thanks! (link)
ummmmm....
chi
conair
alot...erble essences brilliante brunnette sammy trseme sauve bed head and soem others...same with conditioner
?...if u mean hair stuff i use alot...
same with face stuff...if u mean makeup...mostly mary kay...same with face wash


I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!! (link)
ok...rape is where ur forced to have sex...she cant help it if she got pregnant, your other friend chose to so its her fault!


i look for porn sites on google with my computer...everytime i get on google and i type "p" and the word porn will then flash on to the screen...i dont want to get caught!!! how do i clear the history??? plz help! (link)
haha wow niice...but i dont know how...if anyone does tell me and i will put it on here for ya



when are the chances of getting pregnant the highest? (link)
2 days b4 your period...i think?


I really want to buy a vibrator... but I don't know where to go. I am 16 years old, and do not want one shipped to me, I want to go to a store. I was wondering, do I have to go to a sex store or are there any other stores that sell them? (link)
no clue...but im guessing ur gunna have to go to some sorta sex store...lol good luck with that;)


i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused (link)
i cant really help you there....i dont get it either...sorry:/


ohk im really scared! i think i MIGHT be pregnet. but see i did not ever have sex! ever! but i KIND of did anal.like it went it half way. can u get pregnet from anal? and like i always get my period before my mom, but she got hers today and istill dont have mine and im like really scared (link)
uh....no and jsut wait a while...thats normal


Im 14, female, and i have this really great bf that goes to my school i eat lunch with and is in one of my classes. on the other hand we've been going out for 5 months and i feel like we do the same thing all the time and like hes getting bored or sumthing. Then i have a really good other guy friend that i havent known for that long, which i met through my bf, and i think i like him, and i know he likes me, please help im so lost and confused~ (link)
Well....if you dont like who your going out with then break up...but if you think he is getting board then ask him...thats the only way you will know for sure...then you have to choose who you would rather go out with...sometimes its hard but one of them is prob. right for you...im not much help on this but if u need anything else jsut ask!


is it wrong for a girl to like another girl.??? (link)
not if your a lesbian lol




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