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Hello I'm 13 years old and I have been through a fake relationship 2 years ago and it effects my courage and feelings today. There are many girls that went to my school and are going to my high school that I could have asked but I'm afraid. I think ill either be turned down or dumped. I am not a bad guy but my ex brought the bad out of me. We were friends for 6 months and I was already obsessed with her. Me and her always wrote notes to each other and we flirted alot. Then I gathered my courage before Christmas break and asks her out on the notes and she said yes. After that she never hugged me or touched me. Then she came to me a week later saying that my so call friend named chance said our relationship isn't real and I said why do you believe what he says and she cried and walks away. I talked shit to chance even though he was a football player and I confronted him. He said what she said he said. Then they went to see a movie with the school and I stayed back at school.and people came back telling me chance as holding her hand and I was pissed. I went to MacKenzie in 3rd hour the next day and dumped her and she said I already dumped you when I held chance's hand. That set me off. I said you were never worth my time you worthless bitch and walked away as the bell rang. She cried for the rest of the afternoon. A year later I find her on facebook and I decided to say hi and start as friends and she cussed me out and I don't respond.i look at her page and find her kissing like 50 different boys in sexual positions bit not doing anything but kissing. So I call her a slut and she cried again. She even put me on blast about our old relationship. I'm afraid of asking til this day for that very reason. She also said she'll get her boyfriend who I a wrestler on me if she sees me again.please help.
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Hey there, First thing you need to do is stop looking at her Facebook page, and disconnect all ways of communication. Then if any more threats come up report her and her boyfriend to an adult or someone that has some sort of authority. Once that is out of the way you need to start letting go of what happened, once you do this it will be easier to start moving on. Lastly make sure that the girl you decide to ask out is someone you know and has given signs to you that she likes you. And make sure it is someone you trust and know won't do something like that to you. And one more thing make sure when you ask her out there is no pressure on either person and that you confront her face to face in a private conversation to ask her out. Once you let go of your ex and leave her behind it will be easier for you to do these things.
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