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I am a mother of 3 beautiful children I come from a big family I am the oldest of 7 kids. My grandmother raised all of us my mother is a drug addict and I have seen and lived thru abuse physical and emotional and have over came all the struggles.

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I've been with the same guy for almost five years and we share a four month old together. This relationship has definitely not been the best in the begining it well and then after 2 years I found out he was cheating on me with many girls. I tried to break it off but it was really hard and I couldn't go a day without thinking about him. We tried many many times to make things better and so they seemed good for awhile it just went strait back to bad. When he gets mad he screams at me and calls me every name in the book. He is also horrible with money I'm always loaning him money and then when he gets paid I tell him what he owes me and he calls me a liar and starts a huge fight and its like this on a regular basis there's days were he will completely ignore me. After the baby the cheating stopped I haven't been able to find anything suspicious in his phone and he tells me he would never cheat on me again and there's a part of me that wants to trust him but I can't. We currently live together too I really do love him and I think he has the ability to change but I've never left him. This is just really stressing me out I'm not a bad person I love my baby and I love myself and I would love us to be happy but I feel like there's so many issues here. I need some help.

you should pack up and leave him I was in an abusive relationship for 6 years before I got smart and left. but things will never change you don't need to be in a relationship like that its not healthy for you nor for your baby your baby can sense that something is wrong and its not healthy I know been through it myself and my daughter well lets just say its a constant battle she lived through the abuse as well and things she seen and heard has hurt her so what im saying is just go move out and don't speak to him unless it has to do with the baby

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