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Q: i am in a relationship with a pastor for almost 8 yrs. Most of his church members think he is still with his wife , he is not divorce her yet but he is living with me. Now sudenly his wife is working night shift as home health aid, he has to go sleep with his son every night and left me alone. what should i do now?.I am so depress and i feel likekilling myself
If a man can make you that depressed to the point where you want to kill yourself because of his actions...it's time to leave him! Why couldn't he take his son and stay where you guys live? Makes no sense, he's making no effort. But then again his child will always be more important than anybody else so if you can't understand that well then maybe you're not cut out for the relationship that you guys have. He has to support his child and be there for him. But you saying that it makes you want to kill yourself...well that's another thing and you need to get out. If you can't be secure in your relationship then this isn't the one for you!

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