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Q: My bf and i are 16 and weve just started to have sex and soon as we start doing it he loses his erection so i start giving him a handjob
but i cant get him hard again he only lasts no more than a minute not sure if its nerves or anything what can we do?

hmm you can do role play like try to play out one of his fantasies .also Anxiety can certainly cause the loss of an erection.so i would talk to him . hope this helps .

Q: i have really big nipples! all of my friends call my pepperoni nipples. is it normal for a 15 year old to have that big of nipples?

yes it very normal as you may know breasts come in many shapes and sizes and so do nipples.Its perfectly normal and fine .hope it helps

Q: My bf and i are 16 and weve had sex twice and i could hardly feel him he has a small penis
i didnt say anything not sure if i should i dont want to hurt him are there any good positions we can try?

i think you should talk to him about getting some performance inhancers the only positions i can think about is the cowgirl position .
srry hope this helps.

Q: HURTS OF CONDOM

HURTS OF CONDOMS WHICH
USED AS CONTRACEPTIVE TO
PREVENT PRAGNANCY
IN
WOMEN
**********************************
When the man using CONDOM as contraceptive the woman
Become mad and crazy... this duo to the semen of man is remaining
In the condom and it was not ejaculated and dropping in
Vagina of women there
is not sweet taste for fucking like that you are drinking tea
Or coffee with out sugar the coffee or tea is not sweet it is bitter.....Semen of man is like
Sugar it make the coitus and sex meeting sweet to woman
The fuck is sweet- fuck with out condom when man is not
Using CONDOM in fucking woman the semen of man will
Ejaculated and dropping and falling in vagina of
Woman then the semen is absorbed by vagina wall and
Inter the blood circulation and reached the brain
Then the women mind become in a convenience
Mood and good feeling she is not be a madden
Or crazy woman
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
ADVICE FOR YOU
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
To good enjoy and pleasure in your sexual live
And good ERECTION of your CLITORIS i give you
This advice
STOP
Practice reading and writing ...
Because practice reading and writing
Loosening and lowering
the SEXUAL ability and power of you. Go to live in
Villages and forestry far from cities and towns
Practice READING and WRITING make you unusual
woman or SADOMITE (SODOMY) women

errm ok

Q: ok well i was just figured for the first time and it hurt bad he did it about 3 times and they only lasted about 20 seconds because it hurt.
is that normal? ive never like masturbated or anything but i was thinking maybe i should so it doesnt hurt next weekend if he does it again.
how many more times will it take before it stops hurting when he fingers me?.

ok for the first time it will hurt but if it hurts again he may be doin it wrong but your shold probably start so you can tell him what feels good and stuff .

Q: okay so i had unprotected sex about a week before i was supposed to get my period but it came a week late probably cause i was stressing about it so much.. and i asked people on this site if it was possible to still be pregnant and most of them said no.. but now im not sure cause i feel movement in my vagina.. i dont know but its weird ..and ive never had this before.. does anyone know what this is?

it could possible be nothing . also i would get a pregnancy test if your not sure .so hope it helps srry i couldn't think of anything else for your question.

Q: how will you know if you lose the baby? by the feeling or what?

ok to know if you lost the baby i would suggest you go to a doctor because theres not a 100%
change by feeling that you'll know you've lost it.so thats what i suggest hope it helps .

Q: if i popped my cherry or hymen or whatever

im pretty sure it wasnt broke before

but when i had sex it didnt bleed or hurt

to be honest i didnt really feel much at all

i thought maybe if i was too tight it didnt go in all the way

and also

i was wondering if you could be a virgin

even if you did that and it didnt go in all way

and you didnt really want to and your really innocent at mind and heart?

im sorry if this doesnt make sence ,but help would be appriciated.

ok if it didn't hurt during sex its most likely you've broke your hymen already.
also no your not a virgin even if it didn't go in all the way because no matter how far it goes in the vagina your not a virgin anymore srry.

hope this helps i didn't really understand the question but i tried my best srry.

Q: ive slept with my boyfriend many many times before this. but last night we slept together and the entire time i had tears running down my face. i wasnt it pain and i wasnt sad. afterwards i started crying. i dont know what this means and i dont know why i was crying.

lately ive come to the realization that im not happy with him, but i want to be with him.

maybe it's because you were just havin sex with him to make him happy.you should totally have a talk with him about whats making you unhappy with him. you can't be in a relationship were on one of you is happy so i would suggest talking with him .hope this helps .

Q: when you get sent spam e-mails..with like it saying hot girls getting cummed on..what if you click on one..will it give your computer a virus?

it shouldn't give your computer a virus but theres a small posibility it will. also if u click on it you will go to the site which will send you more spam mail . so i suggest if you want to get rid of it get a spam blocker and a fire wall and stuff .

Q: ok i think an orgasm is when u feel really good and sperm comes out.but about how long does that good feeling last

ok this good feeling you are talking about could last from 3 seconds or as much as 30 seconds. deepending on if you have reached the peek of an orgasm . also here is the definition of an orgasm just incase you need some info.

An orgasm (sexual climax) is the conclusion of the plateau phase of the sexual response cycle, and may be experienced by both males and females. Orgasm is characterized by intense physical pleasure, controlled by the involuntary, or autonomic, nervous system.It is accompanied by quick cycles of muscle contraction in the lower pelvic muscles, which surround the primary sexual organs and the anus. Orgasms are often associated with other involuntary actions, including muscular spasms in other areas of the body, a general euphoric sensation, and, less frequently, vocalizations.

After orgasm, humans often feel tired and a need to rest. This is attributed to the release of prolactin.Prolactin is a typical neuroendocrine response in depressed mood and irritation.

Q: which part that woman touch a man's body to get them biggest turn on ever?

ok here are 3 places

Feet: Titillate his tootsies by stimulating their tightly packed nerves. Soak his feet in warm, soapy water, then slide your pinkie or index finger into the crease between his big and second toes and, twisting your hand from side to side in a "so-so" gesture, run your finger all the way into the V and back out. Repeat on each toe.

Thighs: The proximity to his penis makes this stroke superarousing. Facing his head, straddle his lower legs and, adding a drop of massage oil, place your hands on his thigh so one palm is above the other. Slide your hands all the way up his leg. When you hit his pelvis, move one hand to his inner thigh and one to his outer thigh, then pull your hands all the way back to his knees. Switch legs.

Butt: To totally relax his lower-body tension, look for the groove in the outer portions where his butt meets his leg. Straddle his legs and gradually press each of your knees into his derriere dents for one or two minutes.

this will totally turn him on so have fun .

Q: ok so i am a member of this site, and i read alot of peoples questions. so i was reading one, what does climax in sex mean? thanks! :)

ok the climax in sex means the point to which the male or female reaches the intensity of an orgasm durin sex.

bio

ok my name is cassy im 16 years old.
i started this column because i want to help
answer some questions people have .
so don't be afraid to ask me because whatever
u need help with im here .
anyways my main focuse is on teens but pretty
much if anyone needs help i'll be here to try and help so plz feel free to ask me some questions .