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I am a 13 female and recently I just found out I am pregnant. I have no one for the baby except for my boyfriend who is the father. He is 16. My parents and me never keep in touch anymore so I live with my sister who is 18. She is never home and won't get mad if she found out I was pregnant. My boyfriend knows and is really happy. He is glad I am pregnant. But I'm not. I mean I am going to have the baby and keep it and i will love it but I am too young. But I do not know what I should do with my boyfriend. Can anyone give me advice? Please help.

hey well im 13 too nd i cant imagine being pregnant, i know that it could be difficult for u not having ur parents there with u but since u do have your sister, talk to her nd tell her how u feel nd that u really need help help nd cant go thru this alone nd with just ur boyfriend. you need to also talk to ur boyfriend nd tell him how u feel nd he should be there to support u nd help u thru all of this. make sure u finish school even with ur baby. even try goin to college or get a scholarship.ask ur sister to help you watch da baby after you have it while ur in school. well im against abortion nd i dont think thats best for u, sooo talk to them nd tell them how u feel nd that this is wen u mostly need them in ur life..well i hope i helped nd good luck!

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There is this guy that i had met and the next day he took my virginity and then 2 days later he came back for more. I didnt really know him and we starting freaking out hat i might've been preg.But i am not and like ever since he has been scared to talk to me. I dont care that he doesnt talk to me but like doing what i did with him ruined my life. I got kicked out of my moms house and like alot of stuff happened. I dont talk to him because i am not important to him or whatever. I feel so used and gross. I wish this feeling can leave me but it wont. I need to feel clean ,any advice?

ok well 1st of all u shouldnt have done wat u did but thats ok now that was all in da past nd now u arent like that. now try talkin to ur mom, start over with u life you can do much better! talk to ur mom how u made a mistake nd that every1 makes mistakes..NO ONE is perfect. try to put what happened in da past, ya it`ll be hard to do but u can try. think positive nd remember that u can make it thru, u can also try talkiin to someone thats older then u that ur close to soo that u can take all those emotions out..iight babe?

i hope i helped!
if u need more advice feel free to ask =)

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is sex cool nd how does it feel?

idn u tell me???

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hey i like your advice column..

can i have your screen name and maybe can we have sex?

thnx..

u dont need my sn and no

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hey i like ur column and i think you give great advice so can u help me? well im 12 and im gonna be going to 7th grade, i like this boy a lot (lets call him tim) well tim and i are very close and i think he likes me well i think that if he told me he liked me back..i would have sex with him but im only TWELVE help me please!!!!!!!!!

heyyy thanx babe, well 1st of all dont even think about having sex cuz ur only 12..if u lyk him nd he likes u back well then u can hang out with him and be with him but dont have sex!! da both of ya can kiss and make out if u want but dont go as far as sex. but then again i cant tell u wat to do and if u really think your ready then i guess do it? but its not whats best for u!! think twice be4 u do sumthing..i hope i helped =)

good luck!

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im a virgin...but i want to know how to tell my boyfriend i wanna loose it with him..we have talked about it it alott...and hes a virgin too..he tells me he found the right person which is me and i told him the same but i dont know how to tell him i want to loose it with him..can someone tell me how i can do tell him that i want to loose my virginity with him??

-WaNting To LooSe iT-

tell him that u thing ur ready to have sex with him. if he wants to do it too then u shouldnt be worried on how to tell him...just say ur ready =)

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